Greetings, stay awhile and Listen.
It has been awhile since I was last online on this site, this was due to work and building the foundation with my new kitten. I do not want people to think I have forgotten about my pledge to keep "Preaching to the masses" so to speak about different things I see. I also need a forum as an outlet to express my thoughts and ideas. Before we go any further, yes my kitten knows about my thoughts and idea's in my head. Which brings me to the lesson for the day if you will.
A D/s relationship is built on trust as I have covered previously but it is also built on the understanding of both people in the relationship. This is where a few of my fellow males and females get confused. Being a Master, Dom, Alpha, whatever else you choose as your title does not give you free reign to do as you please. It allows you to voice idea's, thoughts, scenes, and so on for your partner to think on and choose. Here is where the rub happens in my opinion, when your partner says they are not ready, then you push or force your idea's on them,
This is not how a healthy relationship works. Both parties have a right and duty to each other to say no I am not comfortable with that. One of my discomforts is physical play when it comes to other area's of the body besides the backside or other fleshy parts. My kitten understands this and does not push those situations on me. Side note, if you think your sub does not push idea's into your head then you shouldn't call yourself a Master or any of the other previously listed titles. Your sub's know what they like and don't like, they can tell you what brings them pleasure and what doesn't.
My kitten is currently exploring her likes and dislikes which I enjoy helping her. She is currently enjoying her bratty side that I entertain which she hasn't had before. I employ everyone that is a part of our community to explore and discover what brings you pleasure over what you do to please others. I would never have known I enjoyed a bratty sub if I didn't allow her to find her pleasures.
Slight update, I will not be able to post as much as I would like in the future. I am going to try and keep a once a week schedule if nothing else random thoughts put down. There needs to be more time in the day for everything I want to do but alas that is not the case.
As always, thank you to everyone that reads my words even if you don't agree with them. Stay Safe and Stay Happy my friends.