What it is - beautiful
What it isn't - abusive
What it is - patience
What it isn't - rushing a dynamic and power exchange barely days after talking to each other
What it is - a reason to wake up every morning and try a little harder
What it isn't - emotional abuse after a failed task
What it is - taking time to carefully understand and put forth tasks that are realistically achievable and something that allows people to still be humans with flaws
What it isn't - getting angry and abusive because the put forth task wasn't completed
What it is - an intoxicating reason to live
What it isn't - something belittling
What it is - safety and nurturing guidance
What it isn't - demanding perfection and lack of communication or boundaries emotional or otherwise
What it is - a frame work to grow as a person
What it isn't - a shame to use against another person
Fake Dom's are rampant at times and as a protector sub, I just want all the other subs to know the difference between abuse and a proper Dom
Proper Doms are people I will never forget, people who push me even today to strive to be better than how I was
Abusers are not.
And they are not welcomed in our community what so ever