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Hello the world of the Cage community, I'm a long time kitten / occasional educator and writer at times for various things and people in the lifestyle. I eventually moved on to write articles for the official kittenplay website before that got shut down. My curiosity lies in whether or not people still might want to read my articles? I would write all the history of bdsm (like how it dates back to ancient Greece, ancient Egypt etc) Psychology (a topic I've basically been heavily if not obsessively studying since I was a child) petplay etc.
4 weeks ago. December 3, 2024 at 7:23 PM

So I've met people that follow this strictly and also people that have no idea what that even is

 

I think for most, people have probably heard some of it or something about it so I just wanted to go through it for my own sanity to have as a reference and for others in case they ever needed one, it seems like people either don't know or if they know they don't often educate others, so I'm gunna do that instead

 

Now I'm not sure where this higherarcy originally comes from, at most I think it had something to do with the "Old Guard" or people from that time but it might honestly be a lot older than that.

 

Whatever the case, the higherarcy as it was explained to me when I was first getting in this community, it came from reading things from a bdsm website, the site isn't around anymore but they had tons of information on the lifestyle and old traditions and so on, my first Owner Sir Cammy, gave me the website as a massive bdsm crash course on everything I needed to know, it was paramount I understood everything I was getting into before he agreed to be my Owner and protector, he stressed constantly that I was educated and understood things and would spend hours explaining something if needed be, he had to be double, triple and quadruple sure I understood everything before agreeing to anything and I still respect that about him because he made my safety as a complete noob feel like the most vital thing in the universe. 

 

The higherarcy goes as follows

 

At the top of the list - Regionals, Kings and Queens, Princes and Princesses, Enforcers, Slave Drivers, Militants, Sadists, Daddys/Mommys

In the middle - switches, wild pets, littles as they out rank the majority of the pet community

At the bottom - pets, general submissives, slaves always came last as they're at the very very bottom

 

I'm probably forgetting a couple terms or roles and power levels but that's what I remember off the top of my head and generally what I go by, and I've seen tons of people follow similar or they at least know roughly about the higherarcy and all that. 

 

Hope this helps! 

Cello Trance{for You}Verified Account - I am so off grid with that stuff. I have been a happy Hypno Dom for a long time and I'm not much into hierarchical rules. Even as a Cello player, I quickly went off grid. I'm professional and classical trained, but as a child of the 60s, I started learning how to play, jazz rock, blues, and improvise all ofn my own. I had a Juilliard trained cello teacher, who had no idea how to help me with that, so I learned off grid if you will…

Also, with what I do as a Hypno Dom, I try to do with love and care for the person I am with. I don't try to follow a strict set of rules. That just doesn't work for me.

I haven't always been perfect. Far from it. But that is my desire.
4 weeks ago
Sweet Minx​(sub female) - What is the purpose of the "hierarchy"?
4 weeks ago
TigerBDSM​(dom male){looking} - Everything is relative. A good read however.
Good news, you felt safe and comfortable, BRAVO to you both!
However the ultimate goal is a connection with someone who has similar aspirations AND (the difficult part) will grow with you on the same trajectory.
So (BDSM POLICE WARNING!!) the dom wears one slipper and scuba flipper, and has ZERO leather clothes (winter jacket is ok) and does not do "dom speak". He can still be a tremendous dom for you as long as he provides the things you desire.
Been around for a bit, what really matters is a meaningful relationship, not if you both check boxes in the CORRECT bdsm world (for beginners paint by the numbers might be helpful).
Now on to the rules (sharpen those pencils) of life, raising a family and how to eat properly.. DO EXACTLY as read......EXACTLY...LOL
As I've said for over 50 years, have fun and provide the environment conducive for those who want to share your life to have fun with you!
Please take my words with a grain of salt.
Life is about learning what makes you happy and hopefully finding someone who also makes you happy. How you arrive their can be done in unlimited ways.
4 weeks ago
Cello Trance{for You}Verified Account - That was actually some pretty damn good advice
4 weeks ago
TigerBDSM​(dom male){looking} - From the sub/slave POV follow a VERIABLE good leader.
Anyone can say...read this..they do that...(99.999999990% of the time they HOPING you fulfill their fantasy of the PERFECT slave/sub) and not have to work VERY HARD AND FOREVER in leadership and control.
Zero issues with being wrong and hopefully EVERYONE in life has the very best of everything always...
4 weeks ago
Steellover​(sub male) - It's good to be at the top.... but sadly, I know my place, and it is at Her feet- and at the bottom- and with the right "Her" then I'm okay with that.
4 weeks ago

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