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A Cat's Tail

A little blog, about some of my experiences and questions I guess. It's a nice ice breaker, and way for people to get to know me before we talk. :3
4 years ago. September 20, 2020 at 4:55 PM

My life is pretty much cut and dry, I'm your average young adult. If you can can call me an adult, more like a child in an adult's body..

I follow the same routine every day, almost never skipping a beat.

  • I wake up
  • I try and eat breakfast
  • Take the dog for a walk
  • Get ready for work
  • Make it through my work day
  • Run errands/do chores
  • Spend time with at least one friend or family member.
  • Eat dinner
  • Get ready for bed
  • Take time to recount how my day went, and how I feel.
  • Sleep

I've followed this formula since I was a freshman in highschool, it always helped me keep my depression somewhat in line. 

Here we are, on Saturday September 19th, and it's 6:45 am. Almost time for me to wake up, and start the day.

So I snapped my eyes awake, ready to hear 'Take on me by Aha' signaling that it's time to crawl out of bed.

When my eyes opened, my vision looked werid? It was like I was seeing normally, but everything in my room had shifted a little bit to the right.

Of course I didn't stress over it right then and there, because it was kinda dark in my room so I probably need to turn the lights on.

So I tried to get out of bed, but my legs were stiff and unresponsive. Like they wanted to move but, something was holding them down.

I started to panic slightly, I've had sleep paralysis before. I was not in the mood to fight demon's, and SCP's this early in the morning.

Finally after a few minutes of struggling, my body just kinda threw it's self out of bed. I was happy because I still had time to follow my routine, until I realized I didn't move my body.

I'm freaking out at this point, and decided to ask my mom about it. Maybe she was experiencing the same thing, or she knew what was going on.

I motioned for my body to turn in the direction of her room, but it didn't work..? I just walked past her room, without any hesitation!?

I told myself that I'll skip breakfast today, I didn't want breakfast until I sorted the whole body thing out.

But I watched myself, go in the fridge and pull out the ingredients for oatmeal. And then I realized, I'm eating, even though I said I wasn't hungry. 

Basically my brain, outright ignored me!!

At this point, I knew something was wrong but I couldn't discribe what the heck was happening. I even pondered call off of work, and heading to the doctor just to be safe.

I wasnt even keeping track of time, until my dog nugged me to indicate he was ready for a walk. I looked down at my hands, to see and empty bowl that once had oatmeal in it. (I don't remember eating it) 

I got up and put my tennis shoes on, grabbed the leash and started for the door. 

The walk was short and quick, or at least that what it felt like. I left the house at 8:15am, but once I made it back it was 9:30am.

For a walk that felt like 10 minutes, actually took an hour and fifteen. I was shocked, I could tell my facial expression didn't even budge.

I watched myself let the dog off the leash, as he dashed inside the house eager to eat his breakfast.

Then I started my morning routine, once I stood in the shower a part of me was still unsure about the situation I was in. So like any good scientist, I decided to experiment.

Everyday I use the same pomegranate soap, a black lofa and charcoal face cleanser.

So i decided to use my pink lofa and strawberry soap, but surprise surprise I continued to use the my Everyday shower routine.

After I proved my hypothesis right, I decided I would give up and just try to make through the day. The moment I allowed myself to just function, I began to see myself in 3rd perspective.

My mind was making decisions for me, And all I could do was watch helplessly. But I found out some pretty interesting things.

I found out that I wouldn't put myself in harm's way, even if I wasn't in my right mind. 

For example, any other day I would of just drove to work. But instead my Brain made the decision to call a Lyft instead of driving, because I wasn't focused enough to drive.

Or when I clock in for work, I waited for the exact time to start my shift. I didn't clock in a second early or a second too late.

But what was really amazing to watch, was the fact that I could fake my job without a single flaw. I was able to provide errorless costumer service, I was even able to laugh and smile even though I couldn't feel it.

But my manager could kinda see right through it, he kept checking in on me. To make sure I was okay, since I seemed more off than usual.

In the back of my mind I was screaming, "No, I'm not alright my body is on autopilot mode and I can't turn it off!!"

But my body just smiled, and dismissed the thought. By telling him, that I probably was tired and needed some rest.

 Once my work day was finished, I immediately made my way home. With no chores or errands to do, next was to spend time with a family member or friend.

Thank goodness everyone was busy.

Instead of eating dinner or getting ready for bed, I just went straight to sleep. I was ready for this day to be over with, and hopefully when I wake up it won't be the same.

The last thing I remember hearing before I fell asleep, was a voice that most likely belonged to my mom. She told me to go see the doctor, if I didn't feel better by tomorrow.

Now here we are Sunday, September 20th at 12:52pm. And Im back to normal, I've been touching things and making decisions all morning to make sure I'm me again.

And I'm glad to say, I'm no longer a ghost... I think...

 

I wanted to share this story, because I'm still not sure what the heck happened and maybe someone has a better idea. Thanks for reading all this!

-Night 🌙

4 years ago. September 18, 2020 at 12:00 AM

I had family over today, and they pulled a bottle off my shelf in the bathroom assuming it was lotion/vaseline....

It was a small bottle of lube-

They used a fair amount...

-Night 🌙

4 years ago. September 14, 2020 at 7:45 PM

After a year, I'm back! I come bringing nothing but good news since I've been gone.

 

So I completely quit school, after some soul searching and a few helpful tips from my therapist. I decided that college just wasn't for me, it was suppperr stressful and took up way too much of my time.

I was missing out on family and friends, and time I could've spent with them. And it made me so sad, when I realized how much I was neglecting them.

My roommate was so sad, when I told her I wasn't coming back. She cried and said she'll miss me so much, but she's happy that I'm happy.

Her words made feel so loved, that we both sobbed on the floor for an hour like the babies we are.

 

Next, I got another job! I'm still at the same hospital, but now I'm a manager! My supervisor became impressed with my skill and determination, that he secretly put me in manager core.

Once I finish the training, he made me a manager of my department. Which was a huge pay raise, and way better hours!

I so nervous when he called me into his office, that I cried when he said my name. I'm surprised he kept a straight face, while talking to me.

 

And last but not least, I've moved back in with my mom. Which is a huge thing for me.

Me and her have never had a good relationship, she was toxic, controlling and abusive. But as she's gotten older, she becoming sick and tired.

My family had been trying for years, to convince me to erase the memories of her abusing me. Because she doesn't have long left, and it would be horrible to die thinking your children hate you.

So after some healing and more soul searching, I decided to learn to forgive and move forward.

My therapist suggested that if I was comfortable enough, that I should move in with her. But he was really supportive, if I didn't want to.

But I did, and I don't regret it. Because I'm finding closer in our past, while trying to write a new future with her in the plan.

 

So now that the storm is over, and it's calm for now. I've made my way back to the platforms I loved, but this time I'm coming back in full swing!

So thank you for reading this long story, and I hope you have a wonderful and positive day. 💕

 

-Night 🌙

5 years ago. August 13, 2019 at 1:22 PM

So the last time I was here my life was kinda spiraling downward, College sucked, my dormates didn't like me, and my job was becoming unbearable.

Well im back to give you an update on what happend, again I hope I don't ramble too much...

 

So first thing, Im taking a break from college. It was way too stressful, and I should of listened to my dad honestly. Trying to go to college right after Highschool was the worse mistake I could of made, I wasn't prepared and in the end I almost drove myself insane!

Ill maybe try to resume my studies, in 2020. And that is a strong maybe, im not sure if i want to put myself through that hell again...

 

Next, my job. I quit it, it certainly was not worth the 10.00$ I was making an hour. I was sexually harassed while i was there, my manager didn't want to pay me. And I knew deep down, I could've done better.

So I did, i went and got a job at a hospital as a receptionist! And I love it, everyone here is so nice and gentle. My manager is awesome and super understanding, and my hours and pay are better than before.

 

Now im back home with my aunt, and my life is going so much better. Im building some of the relationships I lost while everything was going on, and im learning to forgive some people who hurt me...

But im glad to be back, I kinda missed this community. Thanks for reading!

-Night

5 years ago. January 22, 2019 at 7:28 PM

I've talked to my professor, and he agreed to let me work on my own!

 

Only because there is no one else who can work with me, but that perfectly fine! (I don't mind working alone)

 

I still have to go to work today, but I can bare it just a little longer. 

 

And my roommate being so supportive, which is awesome cause she said she'll make some cookies for me! (She bakes really well, so I'm excited)

 

An the professor that has an issue with me, I'm going to try and work it out with him. But if not I'll just take the issue to someone higher, and we'll solve it that way.

 

Thank you, for all your support it means a whole lot to me. Just hearing your suggestions and advice, made this whole process a lot better. 💕

5 years ago. January 22, 2019 at 2:07 PM

So for anyone who is in college right now, or maybe graduated I wanna give you a round of applause! 👏

 

How did you do it!?

 

Im only in my second semester, and I'm ready to drop out. 😭

 

My professor is a jerk, and it doesn't help that I rejected his son... (I mean he just wasn't my type)

 

My partner has no work ethic, so she doesn't even wanna do the project we were assigned. (It's worth 25% of our grade)

 

And some girls at my dorm, don't even like me. And broke one of my game controllers, and refuses to replace it! 

 

Then I have to find a new job, because my manager keeps trying to underpay me!

 

I'm ready to go home, the only good thing that happened was my neice came to see me. (She's such a sweetheart ❤️)

5 years ago. December 25, 2018 at 12:53 AM

I'm Soo bored, I'm home for the holidays!

 

But my family is boring, so if anyone has some time I'll be online for about two hours.

 

Anyone wanna talk about anything?

 

(Oh and if you need a few topics, Ill help you out 😄 )

 

• Anime

•Music

•Art

•Any Past Experience

•Favorite Things

•Animals

•Games

 

Look forward to talking with someone soon! :)

 

-Marshie~

5 years ago. November 29, 2018 at 8:02 PM

So far I grown to like some of the community around here, everyone is so calm and friendly.

 

No one has started to creep on me yet, so that's a plus!

 

Everyone I've talked to so far has respected me and my boundaries, and has even offered helpful tips on how to keep me safe on here.

 

So I think I'm gonna stick around longer, than I thought I was going to.

 

I can't wait to meet more of you, I hope we get along! :D

 

-Night

5 years ago. November 29, 2018 at 7:05 PM

So uh, hi I'm Night but you can call me Eve as well. Since this is my first post, I'll give you a little bit about myself.

 

Favorite color?: This is going to sound basic, but black.

 

Favorite food?: Mac and cheese

 

Favorite thing to do?: Draw

 

What are my hobbies?: Drawing, baking, reading and writing.

 

Have any pets?: Yup, one black cat his name is Ciel. :D

Favorite games?: Kingdom hearts, sandbox games, and Nintendo games.

 

Favorite YouTuber?: Markiplier, and cryotic.

 

Any social media?: Yup, Instagram, faceFace, Twitter and Tumblr. (Message me and I'll give you the account name.)

 

Alright that's everything so far, if you wanna know more come talk to me. I'm waiting ;3

 

-Night~