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Learning to be Myself

Here is my journey -- from learning to suppress my personality and desires because of the circumstances and environment I grew up in-- to me learning to letting go of the bias, standing up on my own and learning in baby steps TO BE MYSELF... :)
5 years ago. January 26, 2019 at 3:32 PM

It was a big day today for me. Those who know of Indian culture know how hard it is to accept your sexuality here. It is considered taboo for people to talk about their sexual preferences even with their better halves. To live in such a place, and to accept that I have a submissive in me was in itself a big step. However, I was utterly alone in my choices.

Though, today was different. I was out for lunch with a few friends, and later got to spend some quality alone time with my bestie. I took a deep breath, asked her not to freak out and told her everything. From the very beginning on What is BDSM, How I realised I was into it and Where I've come...

And guess what ! She asked me one and one question alone," You're gonna be safe right !?" And when I assured her of my safety, she accepted me so willingly that I ended up crying...

That feeling of having someone around with whom I can bare my heart is awesome...

I'm glad I gathered enough courage and I guess I'm blessed to have her.

It was a big day for me and it went great !

Aby ❤️

Loulou​(sub female) - So happy you were able to talk
5 years ago
AbysFLife​(sub female) - I am too... Thank you... ^-^
5 years ago
Finished​(switch female) - Wonderful news! You have an awesome friend! I am trying to work up the courage myself with my best friend but I’ve kept it secret for so long that I’m afraid that’s what she’ll be most upset about. Maybe someday... so happy for you!!! 😸😸😸
5 years ago
AbysFLife​(sub female) - Oh I know ! I got scolded for telling so late too... But it went by fast because her ice-cream was melting... Always remember to buy the ice-cream first... Keeps the temperature down... 😂😂😂
5 years ago
Finished​(switch female) - Lol! Great advice- especially chocolate chip cookie dough ice cream... mmmmm😹😹
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