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Plain Jane

Well I am just a plain Jane with simple thoughts. Bdsm is new and I love learning about it. One day I may have a relationship. I have tried a couple of times but have come to realize I get attached fast and that is not a good thing. So for now going to continue my learning.
3 years ago. June 28, 2020 at 11:51 PM

I don’t think there is any way not to get attached. Well not for us people who have been waiting their whole life to fit in somewhere. Us invisible people. Lonely people. Scared little piglet people. We stand outside looking in so many different windows. We want into all of them and when one ones just a crack we somehow jump through that little sliver of a crack. We dream it’s going to be forever because that’s what we desire. But in reality we chase people away because we get to carried away. We get so excited to just have someone to talk to. Then we just start babbling on and on. With honestly nothing of any value to say. Not that we usually have anything to talk about anyway because our lives are soooo damn boring. So I’ve come up with a new idea for any of you subs that get attached like me. 
1. try and not text every single minute breath. 
2. If number one isn’t going to work then block the person and text your heart out. They won’t get the text messages hoping they don’t get them all when you unblock them. 😂 

3. try with all that is good I. This world to only text them first every other day. Let them text you first the other every other days of the week. 
4. cry it’s ok even though you know your the one to blame and that you drove them away. 
5. this is the biggest one yet plz read this one.   DO NOT BEG. Let them go. If they did not love you enough to let it go. Then it wasn’t meant to be. 
6. you will hopefully find someone someday that will love you back the way you love them. And if not we’ll maybe your true love was murdered or died in some other tragic way and he just isn’t on this earth anymore. God doesn’t make mistakes and he says their is someone for everyone. He just say when or where you would find him. 

Belladonna Dreams​(sub female){Phage'Hada} - I use to have a notebook that I used to write letters to my ex dom
3 years ago
Wandarae - That is a great idea thank you
3 years ago
Lion​(dom male){Hazel Eyes} - Take your time, ask lot's of questions, and be patient they will show up one day when you least expect it. This is how I found my beautiful lioness.
3 years ago

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