Well here I go against everything I know to be sane.
so on here I have read everyone’s views on fifty shades of gray. But no one yet has brought up a whole different point of view on this book. I have seen the movies and I have read the books. Now on the movie side I see your views. BUT “yes you all know I love BUTT one of my favorite words” when you read the books. Or when I read the books I got an entire different view on them.
See I got that he was abused as a child and then as a teenager. BUTT he used the lifestyle that he was taught by his abuser to get release and he used it not only to get release but to make it work His own way.
isn’t that what we all do. I’m new here and I know I don’t know very much about all of this. But I got out of the books a broken man that used BDSM to find his way in life. And honestly isn’t that what all of us are doing. Just wanting to feel. We just want to feel something, anything. I know, I know I’m a nut I don’t fit in. I will probably be the cages enemy number one from this blog. I didn’t get interested in BDSM from this movie or this book. I didn’t get that from the books. If I got anything from the book it was tears. Because someone was abused as a toddler and a child and he was able to come from a messed up childhood and move forward and find his place. Maybe there isn’t any hope for a softhearted dork like me. Maybe I won’t find Mr. Wonderful. But I’m never going to stop looking at this from a different point of view. I mean let’s look at Christian and not Anna. I mean it does show that boys can get raped and molested not just girls. And it shows how he used this lifestyle with different thoughts to make his life work.
Maybe someday this Humpty Dumpty will be able to be put back together. Just like him. But for now I’ll just be cages enemy number one.