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Plain Jane

Well I am just a plain Jane with simple thoughts. Bdsm is new and I love learning about it. One day I may have a relationship. I have tried a couple of times but have come to realize I get attached fast and that is not a good thing. So for now going to continue my learning.
2 years ago. August 31, 2021 at 2:57 AM

I have written about this subject before but I promise this is different. 

how many different types of trust are there? I have been thinking about this, this evening. There is physical trust. Emotional trust and mental trust. There is one more type of trust. It the basic trust. Just easy going honest to goodness pure basic trust. 

what time is it? How old are you? These are very easy questions. Are you married? Again simple. For some of us if someone is married it’s not a big deal but just be honest and find the one that doesn’t care if your married. We are all on this site not to judge or my kink is better than your kink. Heck some of us just like the blogs. The wonderful stories from the beautiful minds that share this space. There is no need to lie about what a clock says or your age. If you don’t fit with one person you will with someone else. “ unless your like me and a misfit toy” 🤣

now if you ask a question and you get your answer you can’t get mad at that person because they didn’t give you the answer you wanted. They gave you the truth and they didn’t break your trust. Yes they may have hurt you because they were honest. But I haven’t meet anyone on this site yet that has just gone out of their way to be mean.

trust is basic and easy, trust in yourself. Trust you get honesty and don’t get upset with them for being honest. When you are told the truth. 

Trust it is how they really feel and that it may not be what you wanted to hear but have enough respect for them that they told you the truth. 

trust is not hard it’s simple actually. If you don’t understand your feelings just say that. If you don’t understand the question just ask for clarification. If you don’t want to answer then just say I would prefer not to answer. But for goodness sake just be a trustworthy person and be honest.  It’s so much easier on your life and you save a lot of drama. 

well that’s all I have to say. 

hope you all have a wonderful night and to all the peeps on here in the storm. I pray your safety through to the morning light. ♥️♥️♥️

Jack in the box -
Ive also learned, dont ask a question you're not prepared to answer yourself lol
Great post Ms Wandarae, thank you.
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2 years ago

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