Accessional diary of a dyslexic dom.

I put this in the Forum, but thought I'd put it in here as well.

I am talking to a lady about a posable long distance / virtual (whatever you call it) relationship. I am a bit confused by what is involved. She is a slave / slut / little etc and seems open to most things (blood and public humiliation are her only stated limits). I am a dominant sadist. I would want her to suffer in varies ways and then tell me about it. But is that how this kind of arrangement works.

Literally any advice, ideas or information would be very much appreciated. However two questions stand out for me, as she will be on her own whirl carrying out my instructions: 1. How to ensure safety? and 2. What can be done by way of after care? Thanks in advance.