So writing is always a tool that can be helpful when we face things in our lives, for many of us. Journaling and blogging have and always will be helpful for me.
Today I am writing about why I chose the nickname I did. Being devoted means giving all of you. As a Dom, sub... Anyone entering a dynamic/relationship .. It is important that you are devoted to the other person, as well as the relationship. You need to be able to give the person the attention and time they need to feel fulfilled, as well as the relationship itself. In being devoted, it sometimes means making sacrifices. It means taking time out of your busy schedule to show the person they are important. It means understanding and knowing that there will be hardships and that good communication between the two in the relationship/dynamic are important.
I am a devoted submissive. When I am in, I'm all in. I take it seriously and I expect my partner to as well. I want to give my partner everything he or she could need, want, and desire. Sometimes, I'm not perfect. I'm first to admit that. I have flaws. Maybe sometimes I give too much. But I am always devoted, dedicated... When I am with someone. If I couldn't be, I wouldn't be with them.
Everyone deserves to have someone who is devoted to them. If you are finding you are with someone who isn't devoted to you, you may want to look at your relationship a little closer. Have a discussion. Figure out why. Can it be discussed? Can it be worked through? Don't settle for less. You are worthy and worth the time and effort.
Have a great day cage friends.
-Ds
