Devotedsub(sub female){His}

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Submissives... How many of you..

3 years ago. September 17, 2020 at 8:18 PM

I wasn't really sure whether to put this in a forum post or a blog. I blog more often than go to the forums, so I decided to put it here. A good friend of mine suggested I blog about it because I was wondering what the response would be.

I was wondering for the submissives out there.. How many of you have gone through experiences where you have been taken for granted over Time (ie months, years). Controlled... Mind screwed and groomed, just to be let down and find out you were only a temporary good time for the person /Dom you were with? Being built up, made to feel special. Being helped to become stronger in different aspects of life.. Only so you'd stick around for games. Only to find out in the end, you were a temporary prize piece for them and were easily let go of. When you finally got the courage to walk away... They tried once more, told you how special you were, but would not show you the love and respect you deserved, but when they didn't... You left and they easily let you go? How many of you have gone through this? How long did you stick it out? If you don't want to say in the comments, I completely understand. You can of course send me a message if this is more comfortable.

Thanks cage friends for taking the time to read.💜

-Ds

My Dear{Trust} - I have. I think in my case i was more of an entertainment for a bored individual; and, mine ended with me revealing that I knew his truths. He did try once more to pull me in, by virtue of threat to use what he knew and had in his possession against me. I have never responded to that attempt.

A many have said regarding atypical personality types - excise them from your life like a big hairy mole on the ass of humanity.

3 years ago

Devotedsub(sub female){His} - Thank you for your comment. Yes, when you reveal their truths, or question them.. They back away. They hate that.

3 years ago

Devotedsub(sub female){His} - And also I'm very sorry for your experience, my dear.

3 years ago

My Dear{Trust} - He didn't back away, Hon... he vanished like Casper in daylight. I agree and second everything above that Kara wrote. Just - if this is a situation you've been in, seriously, avoid this person at all costs.

3 years ago

Devotedsub(sub female){His} - Ah, I see. In my experience, they have slowly backed away, but didn't vanish. I think maybe each is a little different. But they all generally have the same type of controlling behaviors. I just was curious how many have been through this and what their experiences were like. Yes, they certainly aren't people we should associate ourselves with. It's toxic to say the least.

3 years ago

Aquarius Dom(dom male) - It comes in many forms, gaslighting or narcissistic behaviour , many many subs I’ve spoke to over the years have said similar experiences, the other one I hate are the drainers , they tell subs everything they want to hear to get access to wank chats , photos, videos etc, and when they’ve taken everything on offer they just ghost the poor sub leaving then upset and hurt !!

3 years ago

Devotedsub(sub female){His} - Yes. Or a mixture of all of those behaviors. Toxicity... In so many forms

3 years ago

Devotedsub(sub female){His} - The problem can be once you get stuck in the cycle and realize what is going on, it is so difficult to get out. Thank you for the links sweetie, will check them out! And I am sorry for your experiences 💜

3 years ago

WhatamIfightingfor(dom male) - I am not a sub, but I have run into that with general friendships, it blew up every time.

3 years ago

Brown Eyed Girl(sub female) - Happened once. We talked later. After some time had passed. Forgiveness was given and have moved on from that.

3 years ago

Devotedsub(sub female){His} - Thank you for your comment. I'm glad you were able to forgive. Forgiving is important even just for your own piece of mind. And very glad you could move on. I'm sorry for the experience you had.

3 years ago

Daddieslittleone(sub female){Daddysgirl} - My ex ( husband/dom) took my submission and my love for granted for years ..... and finally admitted to me in a fit of anger he had not loved me in 6 years of our 10 year marriage . I was devestated beyond words

3 years ago

Devotedsub(sub female){His} - Geeezzz thank you for commenting, but I am so so sorry, I can't imagine the devastation and pain you must have went through.

3 years ago

Daddieslittleone(sub female){Daddysgirl} - Its still fresh tbh . It happened about 3 months ago

3 years ago

Daddieslittleone(sub female){Daddysgirl} - and yes it was something I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy

3 years ago

Devotedsub(sub female){His} - 🤗🤗

3 years ago

BigBubbles - It was online for a little over a year. I was making plans for him to fly out and stay here awhile. Told my family about him etc. And came to find out he was doing this with several other woman too. Sleeping with some. But telling us all the same thing. I loved him. It broke me. This was just a couple years ago. He was a narcissist. I'd never dealt with one before. But I guarantee you I'll never deal with another again.

3 years ago

Devotedsub(sub female){His} - Good for you! I don't blame you one bit. Thank you for your comment. A year is a long time to go believing someone is not the person you think they are by far. I'm very sorry for what you experienced.

3 years ago

WhatamIfightingfor(dom male) - I hope for the ones in my life the stop being lost, and heal their wounds. I may not be able to trust them, but have no ill will for them.

3 years ago

Devotedsub(sub female){His} - Yes I don't wish ill will on the ones I know as well. We all have problems and weaknesses, including myself. I just hate to see people brought down as a result of others behaviors. Unfortunately, it happens a lot. And not even intentionally in a lot of situations.

3 years ago

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