First and foremost, I am always just being me. One conversation that I have online is about being service minded. Often times anticipating needs before they are needed.
Being a teacher and a mentor for adults and children. I feel I am this way in every part of my life. I watch and learn just like I teach others to do. A day without learning something new is a wasted day.
As a submissive, I naturally am mindful of my Other's needs. For me, this does not necessarily mean I am a house keeper type. I may notice when He may need more water with His meal before it's empty. Those kinds of needs. With time, I will learn what's important to Him and be the one who will see to these things.
Being this kind of sub makes me happy, which in turn is just another way of showing what's important to me...Him.