BDSM and D/s is almost a spiritual thing for me. It’s not just protocols and control, obedience and discipline or the thrill of one primal chasing another - it’s a way to find peace and balance within myself as a dominant that has discovered he has ties to feeling like a Daddy or a primal predator or even a Master. I have all of these aspects within my dominance and it’s important to me to explore what that means for myself and for the submissive I would command and worship and protect and even use.
As important as it is for me to earn submission, to earn that right in a submissive’s eyes, to be allowed to take control and guide as the two of us see fit, it’s also important for me to find what satisfies that urge to BE dominant.
And that can change because sometimes I’ll want tenderness - a leash around a Submissive’s neck while we watch TV together, sometimes I’ll want to push her up against the wall, just to scrape her body on the concrete and see the marks left behind while I take her ass. Sometimes I’ll want to lead her into a forest and go absolutely wild with her - a run, a psychological dance of the minds, growling, seething, biting.
It’ll all change from one day to another. But all these pieces, all these tiny fragments, are what make up my dominance and bring me balance and peace of mind.
Outside of who I am as a dominant, I’m an awkward introvert. I’m quiet, I’m shy.. I suck at words. I love my friends and my family and I love to talk but sometimes I’ll love sitting on the couch with a blanket and reading — or gaming in another world. I’m an avid fan of films, television, reading and music. I love discussing life and love and psychology and I love to do it with a sense of humour.