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4 years ago. January 19, 2020 at 6:50 AM

Well, she's gone. 

She deactivated her cage account. Got rid of her Kik. She read my post. 

She wasn't the one for me but she said she appreciates what i showed her, what i taught her, and what I brought into her life. She appreciates me as a person, but we just...

 

ugh, why does this hurt? 

I know she wasn't right for me, she didn't put the effort I need, she didn't progress, retain, or accept my guidance. Yet Here i am. 

She mourns that we couldn't work it out. 

I am such a softy. She was worried we would fight. 

I'm blabbering, ugh this hurts. 

I'm sure I'll be fine in the morning. 

 

Curlyniccia{Protected} - It's usually later that the hurt sets in. When you start to look back and reflect on things you could have done differently. Head up. Your one is out there. Learn from the experience. You'll be ok x
4 years ago
LaVieEnRose​(sub female){Kintsugi} - *hugs* I don’t really have any wise words other than it’ll be okay and you’ll find the right one for you, just don’t give up! Xx
4 years ago
venia​(sub female){notlooking} - Goodbyes hurt even when we know that they are necessary. Sending you positive thoughts as you move forward.
4 years ago
Ocelotgoddess - Because it's still a failure. Of judgement of yours and hers. Moving forward for both of you knew there would be pain for you both. Feeling it only makes you both wiser. Scars remind us to make wiser choices. Tears remind us we are not made of tin or ice. We do not need to be in a chair in a psych ward wasting away, but are capable of human and animal friendship and deep meaningful relationships.
Scabs too need time to heal. So find some healing living plants break some off to make a healing salve for your heart and watch them grow back... Give yourself that same time to grieve and heal..
4 years ago

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