Adventures with one's soul

Can never go wrong with some Whitney!!

Once again playlist has me dancing!!!

Good morning all you beautiful souls.

This was the first song to play on my shuffled playlist this morning while I bask in the sun drinking my coffee..

Hopefully the words encourage another and the beat up lifts you and gets you dancing like it did me ( bet the people in the office building got a good chuckle seeing me dance on the balcony when they looked out the windows)

May this new day and new week bring you all magical blessings!!!

Last blog for the night

I am leaving you with this..

I am the Queen ( sub)of my own kingdom. My King ( Dom) is an alliance that I chose to make. Not because I need him to control but because I would allow him to, and my presence benefits his Kingdom because of my power.

My alliance is not out of a need. I don't need your Kingdom. I can/ do rule all on my own and do a Damn good job if it. It's because I would want to rule with you and be the best.

But don't think for one minute I make just any alliance. I can take any Kingdom on my own and  rule that one too just adding the subjects to my own.

I told you that you were going to see me in you notifications..

Now is time to see more of who I am in my blogs..

Hope you can handle it all..

This journey is a dance so why not party down the trail.

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I'm all about signs.. A notification from my Facebook showed as I was typing..

I got top fan of " your loss. I'm awesome!""

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You just have to be open to receiving them

Just opened my playlist and hit shuffle

This is the first song to play

You best believe I have my headphones on belting this shit out loud and dancing around!!!

What wonderful experiences and opportunities yet unknown lay in waiting and until they reveal themselves I am embracing me and walking alone to my full potential happy and energetic.

I am not trying to be someone's sub.

I am a sub. What ever type that means.

I am who I am and do what I do.

I don't have to try to be someone's sub because me being me excatly the way I am is the sub for the right Dom

No need in trying because it will just be

Ok I know that I am going to get slack for what I say here.

Hell some may say that I'm not truly a sub.. Well guess what I know I am so I really don't care what is said.

Here is what I have learned for myself in the short time that I have been on my journey. It may not be for everyone but as I have seen from reading blogs sometimes my lessons on my journey and my insights for me maybe resonate for another..

Sometimes a Dom enters our journey on finding our long-term one as a stepping stone. Not only for the sub but also for the Dom. There is an aspect of both that each of them needs at that moment. Sometimes to open the door to the lifestyle, sometimes to introduce a kink or taking to another level.

Sometimes that feeling of " Love " is not for the person but the stepping stone and what was opened and exposed.

Yes you will always care for that person and appreciate what was exposed, but the "love" was not for them.

Once that is realized that is when you are truly free and ready to take the next step..

Hopefully that helps someone.

Good morning everyone! 

Well today I awoke with tons on my mind.

First it was a song. This song.

Then it went to thoughts about a topic of conversation yesterday that actually came up with two different people and a couple of blogs on here kinda fold into it.. I am the type of person that if something comes up 3 or more times in a day I pay attention.

Well that topic was labels. So I started to really think about and realized that my hangup in my journey are the labels. When talking with the people yesterday I referred to some blogs that were made that actually got a lot of attention and it was about a label.

The only labels that I have ever truly identified with and don't mind using are misfits, weirdo, crazy, freak, outcast, and yes I don't care if I am called a bitch ( because most the times that just means I spoke my truth that hit a cord in you that you didn't want hit or anyone to notice, your bad not mine). So I asked one of the people I was talking to " why have labels and  one label holds a bad connotation, shouldn't it be changed?" They brought it to my attention that it is human nature to want to self identify. That no matter what group there is people just feel the need to come up with a word or two that they can identify with because of the need/ want to fit in and identify. Which I get that. I used the above mentioned labels..i then followed up that question with " if in the lifestyle we already say that we are all the above mentioned labels isn't that because we didn't clearly fit any label? ...

That's when it hit me..

I get labels are there so people can find likeminded people. So that they can put categories to their kinks and find those who match them.

The problem for me...

I don't clearly fit any of them. I have tendencies, but I don't clear cut fit any.. 

I tell people all the time " I can be either Alice or Harley, the one you meet truly depends on you."

Which brings me to the second person I had a conversation with. We were talking about things I would be capable of doing and I at one point made that statement. From their point of view and perspective and the context of conversation made me see that comment in a completely different light than I had before. 

So I came to the conclusion at least for me. Labels ( just like any other word) are not always clear cut. Each person holds a different connotation to any given word based off of their own perspective, experience, and emotion attachment to that word..i even found a word in the dictionary that had 4 different definition and none of them were close to meaning the same thing.

So for me the only thing I can say is " I am who I am!"

I fit many different things, yet nothing all at the same time. 

You know what, that's just the way I like it.

I don't see it as I don't fit in anywhere. I see it as the sky is the limit because I can be a bit of everything!

May you all have the most amazing Sunday!

Much love light and happiness!

For anyone who is going through a lost just remember that the ending of one thing is just the beginning of another..

I know that doesn't help the in the moment emotion but try to appreciate it for what it was and know that this new beginning ( whatever it is) will be just as good and most likely better..

You better believe it!!