Angelnthedark(switch female)

Adventures with one's soul

Random thoughts that may or may not flow, but all add up the adventures to one's soul.

I know I am going to get slack

5 years ago. July 21, 2019 at 9:11 PM

Ok I know that I am going to get slack for what I say here.

Hell some may say that I'm not truly a sub.. Well guess what I know I am so I really don't care what is said.

Here is what I have learned for myself in the short time that I have been on my journey. It may not be for everyone but as I have seen from reading blogs sometimes my lessons on my journey and my insights for me maybe resonate for another..

Sometimes a Dom enters our journey on finding our long-term one as a stepping stone. Not only for the sub but also for the Dom. There is an aspect of both that each of them needs at that moment. Sometimes to open the door to the lifestyle, sometimes to introduce a kink or taking to another level.

Sometimes that feeling of " Love " is not for the person but the stepping stone and what was opened and exposed.

Yes you will always care for that person and appreciate what was exposed, but the "love" was not for them.

Once that is realized that is when you are truly free and ready to take the next step..

Hopefully that helps someone.

boofygurl(sub female){Taken} - Everyone comes and goes from our lives for a reason... Doesn't make us any less of a sub or them any less of a Dom... It is a part of life. Some leave a lasting impression while others.... just leave...

5 years ago

Kiki007(sub female) - I absolutely agree with both of you! My Sir and I have had many discussions about our relationship, and we are both aware that one day I will most likely want more than he can give me. That will be a sad day but I wouldn't change a thing because I know this is where we are both supposed to be in this very moment. Great blog!

5 years ago

Litlegrl(sub female){Dragon11} - This is beautifully written. There are many people that come along and help you find what is needed. I have had a few Doms and each one has helped me find out more about myself along my journey. And it is just that: YOUR journey. Never let what someone says put you down. They aren't you, so they don't know what is in your life.

5 years ago

Angelnthedark(switch female) - Thank you.. It was a major realization for me today and hard for me to put in my blog. But you got to take those risk sometimes.

5 years ago

HGB(sub female){Scottish M} - Ouch, this rings too true for me and I'm not ready to move on. Not sure when I will be, he's got big shoes to fill. We have our reasons why and it's not a choice. It just is.

5 years ago

Angelnthedark(switch female) - It's hard going from one group of stepping stones to the next and sometimes you don't leave that last one for the next set for a long time.. For me I am still not moving forward but that's because the next set has not been revealed and even though I see my current situation for what it is. The stagnant emotional attachment is in it process of being transformed from being misplaced to its true placement. Once that is done the next set will be placed in front of me and then I can step forward... All in perfect timing. Not mine

5 years ago

HGB(sub female){Scottish M} - I believe I'm in the same. Even if not forever has been the best person in my life.

5 years ago

Angelnthedark(switch female) - Always here if you ever want to chat in email

5 years ago

HGB(sub female){Scottish M} - Thank you.

5 years ago

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Angelnthedark​(switch female)

Adventures with one's soul

I know I am going to get slack

Angelnthedark(switch female)