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The madness of my mind
4 years ago. May 14, 2019 at 5:48 AM

Good Evening.

This is my first blog , and i promise will be very short, as I’ve been up nearly 24 hours studying for exams, both in groups, and alone.

I have recently encountered a Dom, with whom I have been conversing with., also found out we live in the same state , yet I’m in school across the country., would like to end up back home, yet my career may take me elsewhere? I’m getting ahead of myself, Damn, we are just in the “ getting to know you” stage.  Why am I even speaking about this?  I really came on about a blog I had read earlier today... Had to do with Dom or Sub not communicating as well as I guess this Sub would like. Yes, everyone was agreeing with her, except I?!

Now do not get me wrong in our lifestyle, even a Vanilla lifestyle communication is key.... but who is to say how much communication is enough? Who is to say how much communication is just too much? We all have responsibilities we must carry out, careers to keep us happy, and afloat. Just when does trust fall into this relationship?

I can answer for myself, always! So I guess that is the point I’m trying to make, if the trust is definitely at the forefront in your relationship, than communication through here, text, email shouldn’t be of concern.

Now when in the bedroom in our lifestyle, we most definitely need all the communication and trust life has to offer. Please respond, as I want to see if I’m oddly odd, or if others feel as I. Deep thanks, and enjoy the rest of your night. I must shut my eyes for now. One other thing, I do feel if the communication isn’t to ones liking, than the relationship should be re-evaluated; don’t you think?!

peace - Princess Leah 

 

 

 

 

Bunnie - Although I’m unsure as to which blog you’re referring, I absolutely agree that communication is important... the foundation imo.
4 years ago
PrincessLeah​(sub female) - Yes, communication is important, but I believe the key to the foundation is in the trusting, and everything else falls into place. If you had wrote about this in a blog it wasn’t yours, I didn’t want to hurt, or embarrass anyone, therefore I chose not to name the blog, or blogger . Thank you for your lovely input.
4 years ago
K y i v - Yes
4 years ago
Fen'Harel​(dom male) - Trust is the most important factor into a relationship.... Communication is number 2. I believe if you TRULY trust someone than communication is natural. But if Trust isn't there than communication either stops or becomes bland and distasteful! If you don't trust you should try to see what broke the trust and what can we do to fix it.. Once its done and resolved (for better or for worse) communication will flow naturally again!
4 years ago
PrincessLeah​(sub female) - Absolutely beautifully stated.
4 years ago
K y i v - Trust. Once broken can never be replaced. This is a law of nature.
4 years ago
Fen'Harel​(dom male) - If you say so. I have plenty of experience of trust being broken and being fixed but you may find a different view into this and I respect that!
4 years ago
SoaringFree​(sub female) - Trust, honesty and open communication are the most essential elements of a successful relationship. There is never an opportunity to have too much of any of these. My Sir and I communicate throughout the entire day. We have since the first email was exchanged. Because of this open communication, the trust and honesty came naturally over time. You cannot rush either, they will occur when the time is right.
When all three are in place, everything seems easy.
4 years ago
PrincessLeah​(sub female) - Beautiful thoughts from all! Thank you!!
4 years ago

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