Good morning our wonderful cage family, time for my long overdue update.
Sorry for the delay, ever since my mother passed away life has been speeding by like if I had a jet engine strapped to my ass.
Dealing with my father who i don't think has taken the time to properly grieve I know I haven't. Things were as they say rushed along and he's been grumpy at all the little things in life.
On a happier note, Hazel eyes has finally finished her degree, now she just needs to find a job in her field.
At the end of this month, little man will be two years old. Hard to believe that he's walking, talking gibberish and being a complete pain in the ass as a I call him Terror Tot.
Also the sweetest, most beautiful and loving little boy when he's not pissy.lol
On a different note, I catch a few blogs here and there when time permits and I would like to offer a little advice.
First off when meeting whether you're a dom meeting a sub or a sub meeting a dom please remember this.
The interaction between both people should resemble a first date. Hi how are you, what do you do for work, what are your interest. Normal things to discuss and see if you even have anything in common. Think meat eater meets vegetarian, probably not going to work well.
When I met Hazel we talked via here first about normal things, no mention of the lifestyle at all. After we did talk on the phone it was a 14 hour conversation about a lot of things, likes, dislikes, foods, jobs, music, movies until we were comfortable enough to start talking about what we liked and disliked in the lifestyle. We discussed all the things important to us in this lifestyle and we agreed on many things there were only a few things that really didn't make it a deal breaker with what I was used to.
When we did finally meet face to face the first day was kinda awkward but by day 2 it was as if we had know each other all our lives. Things just fell into place, before she left to go home.
A month later she lost her job and I just said come live here I already have a house, pay all the bills all she needed was to find a job to pay for her car payment and insurance at the time. She has a job lined up before we moved her here.
Come October we will be married six years I couldn't be happier and more proud of her, she was everything I was looking for in a partner. We have been through some rough things life has sent our way but together we are stronger.
So to end this update I will say, don't jump into anything that your not willing to take the proper amount of time to research first.
To all of our wonderful cage family I wish you all the best life has to offer, I hope you find your forever person that completes you not just in the bedroom but throughout life
Big hugs from Lion and Hazel Eyes.