Good morning my lovely kinky family, today's mental word spillage comes from reading way and I mean way to many blogs it seems about the same subject.
Let talk about the perverted elephant in the cage. The so called instant doms, fake ass douche bags, posers, wana bes. This tiny little percentage is causing a disruption to the dynamic force that so many here have worked hard at trying to make a place of community and connection.
So I propose some thoughts for you on how to deal with, weed out, dismiss, say fuck off to these creatures of uneducated living.
First off, submissive's by show of hands, raised coffee cups, ask yourself this important question. Who as the power?
Stop, take a minute to look down at those beautiful breast, them big o titties, those personal flotation devices. Look further down at that lovely pussy, that flower of power, that box of pleasure, those lips of love.
Now for the male submissive's I didn't forget you, take a look at that lovely meat pop, flag pole of pleasure, sausage of satisfaction,
Now yell it loudly I am the one with the power, I'm the one in control of my choices and decisions, without me a dominant is nothing but a lonely, powerless person until I surrender my power to them.
Now, a few things about online encounters.Think about if you were out in the real world and this lifestyle was not hidden. Would you put up with rude, disrespectful comments, hey baby want to see my penis, cheesy one liners, I must be in heaven because you're an angel. No different here, there should be some set standards for how you require first contact.
Time management, I understand were all busy but if your prospective new dominant doesn't seem to have the time for you then why are they here in the first place. If you joined here for the purpose of finding a submissive or dominant than you should be making the effort and time to do just that.
Contact then nothing, sorry to say but either they weren't truly interested or their playing the field trying to find someone better, you may be just the settled upon one after they stuck out with everyone else. No explanation, no answer, time to cut your line and row back to shore, fishing sucks today.
Investment, put as much research into this as you would buying stock, ask questions about everything, ask more questions, write things down, keep track of all communications for fact checking. If you're going to invest your time then make sure it's worth the return.
Truth, to all, tell the fucking truth, not just on some things, on everything. Good, bad, ugly, this way nothing is ever miss represented. You have the most power when you tell the truth, because no one can catch you in a lie.
Final thoughts, for all the new comers, education is a wonderful thing. If you don't know ask, seek out information, talk with not just one person but many to get a better perspective of this lifestyle and this site.
If it seems to good to be true it's probably bullshit. Listen to those who have been through the bs and give sound advice. Oh and quit thinking my magical dominant or submissive is going to show up as soon as I join. It's a fluke, it happens but on rare occasions, there are some here that have that.
Relax, find yourself, love yourself, learn to live with only yourself, then when you have gotten to the point of being happy by yourself, then start your journey to find that special person who makes you happier.
I leave you with a short update, Hazel starts a new job soon, she's still busting her ass with school. The fur kids are doing well, life is going well, just busy with projects around the house.
Much love for you all, remember it's titty Tuesday, so squeeze them if you got them. If not then I suggest Google a pair for today.
Lion and Hazel
