Dominant women/ submissive men

I watched the movie "She said" last night. It's about the investigative reporting that led to the conviction of Harvey Weinstein on charges of sexual harassment and rape. Not only is it a good movie, but it caused me to reflect on the sexual entitlement of men in general. Most of my life I've been keen on the predicament women often face when confronted by male predators and a male dominated society.

My mother, who recently died, always taught me to treat women with respect and deference. I think in a lot of ways my submissiveness and obsequience to women is based on a profound guilt I feel for my gender's accepted privilege.

I'm very grateful to you for showing me, in no uncertain terms, exactly the role I should be expected to fulfill when encountering women sexually.

Also I feel it's necessary to explain that my crossdressing is not meant to be disrespectful, but rather a sense of my own personal emasculation and shame for the misbehavior of my gender.

Although, you of all people, I believe, are acutely aware of the sexual politics surrounding the subversion of little sissies like me who need to be sodomized in order to understand our role.

I greatly enjoy the feeling of being treated like a woman during sex. I've had lots of experience being penetrated by cis females using a strap on. I like to cross dress and play the part of a submissive slut. I'm interested to continue my exploration with another CD/TV or a woman totally in touch with her sexuality. I realize this message is rather blunt, but I'm curious to find someone who can appreciate my desire to learn why I crave to taken, mounted and fucked with wild abandon.

I don't mean to say Femininity is necessarily submissive. We both know that's not true. But I am fascinated by the role-reversal and my own emasculation. I am intrigued by the humiliation and loss of pride, ego deflation that surrendering my manhood causes.

Basically I love being vulnerable. I love allowing my emotions to gush forth. I find that intimacy brings out the the charms in me. I like allowing myself to surrender to someone I trust. Sometimes Im just so needy and horny I've been know to be a little slutty. I hope you won't judge me too unforgivingly.            

I don't really fully understand the whole culture of crossdressing. I mean I'm kinda new to this. All I know is the first time I was pegged I felt this new sensation which overwhelmed me!!! It felt as if this must be how women, I imagined, must feel. Ever since then I've been obsessed. I want to do things that make me experience this extraordinary feeling over and over again!!! I want to dress up, wear makeup, talk, act and think like a woman. And of course I want to have sex like a woman!!! I don't know if I actually want to BE a Woman but I'm addicted to the feeling.

Receptive to another's intentions. Willing to be used for another's gratification. This is how I see my submission.

I am utterly fascinated by all the things you are suggesting.

I've always felt like a man, only I have this profound empathy with femininity. Culturally and psychologically I have been conditioned to behave in a masculine manner. Although deep inside I knew there was something wrong with that construct for me. I was always and still am attracted to women, however I never felt manly enough to pursue a typical heterosexual relationship. At least not with me as a virile, potent, macho person.

I really hadn't investigated a D/s lifestyle until about 8 years ago. Sexually I was always sort of repressed and not confident in myself. Because of the diminutive character of my penis I propelled myself on a mission to be the best cunnilinguist I could be. I thought I could be Dominant(therefore virile, potent and macho) if I could make a woman cum with my mouth. In reality it only induced me to be more effeminate. I realized that I am actually submissive to women and that it is perfectly natural for me to worship them and relinquish myself.

All that was fine and dandy until one Pillow Princess decided to peg me. I was hooked instantly!!! I had no idea I was so analerotic. I wanted to experience this incredible feeling every opportunity I could. When I was being penetrated the feeling was intense and exquisite. But much more than the physical sensation I soon realized that my obsession made me feel strangely feminine, at least what I imagined it was like to be a girl

Many of the Dommes and Mistresses I have known were very pleased to hear I was making this transformation in my mind and often encouraged me to explore this epiphany more deeply as well as bisexuality.

I'm not quite sure what I was meant to be, although recently I've developed the courage to explore.

If any of this sounds familiar to you I would be grateful for your aegis and mentorship. I would love it if you could teach me why I have such an affinity for femininity, especially sexually. Please teach me to cum like a girl!!!🤣😂🙃

I am shy and vulnerable. Will you be gentle with me? Please be patient and go slow with me. Take your time. I really do want to submit. I'm actually very willing and eager. Please make me yours. Treasure me.

I think communication and consent are most important. I sometimes have trouble communicating. I don't always say what's on my mind due to fear of how it may be perceived. But I try. I really do, but to really understand me or me you takes time and patience. Specific actions and reactions when planned out ahead of time seem to lead to deeper understanding. Indeed sensual exploration tends to open up a wordless dialogue that is immense in scope. If I hold your hands and look into your eyes there is a communication more profound than all the words and conjecture. Just being in a space together and touching seems to connect me more than words. I imagine consent grows out of this dynamic too as trust begins to develop.  

I am really rather impressed by my evolution and progress over the past several years. I never expected to be in the place where I'm at today.
At first allowing myself to be penetrated was novel and exciting and in many ways it still is.
However, somehow, I've fundamentally changed. It's no longer just a unique way of discovering myself and relinquishing to an intense kind of pleasure. It's become something I crave and need. Truly my identity is organically intertwined with being the object of anal copulation. I feel most genuine and legitimate while being fucked. I never want it to end. My obsession continues to grow.
I never thought it would come to this, but the very core of my being thrives to be taken and exploited for the empowerment of those who would plough me deeply and ruthlessly.
The thought of being fucked occupies my every waking thought and consumes my nightly dreams!!!

I've been experimenting with and embracing my feminine side for several years now. At first I discovered that I enjoyed enthusiastically giving cunnilingus and being submissive to a woman's pleasure. I actually feel a transference of souls when she cums in my face, I feel her femininity enter into my mind.

About 6 years ago I was pegged for the first time. It felt intense and amazing, although a little awkward at first. The sensation was incredible, but what I really loved was the feeling of role-reversal. I adore being the receptacle rather than the penetrator. I truly feel in touch with me female side when I am being fucked aggressively.

I was hoping you could help me explore this obsession with being an anal slut. I have tried crossdressing and that seems to enhance my need to feel sexually submissive.

What I really need is to meet more people like yourself who can teach me more about being a femboi/sissy and coming to terms with it.

I want to be a two hole whore who can please those who find pleasure and amusement in using me.