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Expressing everything I want to about Bdsm and my life in general
5 years ago. May 26, 2019 at 7:32 AM

My first time indulging in Bdsm in real life was not especially kinky, and honestly not even especially...special. Not to me anyways. I had adored the thought of domination long before and played with some subs online when I could find them, so this wasn’t necessarily unfamiliar.

All that happened was we fucked a couple of times that night, and at one point in time I spanked her, then flogged her. I was glad to know she was into it, as we’re going to start meeting up for hookups more often. I don’t know the full extent of how submissive she could be if I explain to her the intricacies of BDSM, but she very well may open up to it, depending on certain hangups she has that I won’t get into. 

All the same, that small taste of a real life session lightly dominating a girl was very nice, and I’m quite excited for a future filled with much more domination, in person or otherwise. 

dollMaker​(dom male) - I am going to suggest you learn more about BDSM before doing more. Read books and websites about the topic and take things slowly. I say this because, based on the above you spanked and flogged before knowing they were into, willing to consent to that. BDSM has many forms and expressions but the foundation upon which all activity is based is fully informed, enthusiastic reversible consent. To not have consent, permission to do an activity is a violation of consent.

I would suggest reading The Loving Dominant, Screw the Roses send Me the Thorns. The dominants Guide, and submissives guide website and the submissives guide You Tube channel. Loving BDSM website and You Tube channel, Morgan Thornes website and You Tube channel. The Crow Academy website and Arcanes You Tube channel. There is a lot of great solid info to be found in that. Regarding activity, bondage, spanking, impact toy use etc attend workshops and events as books and You Tube videos sill only take you so far re technique and safe practise. Good luck on your journey.
5 years ago
thirstyharley​(dom male) - Thank you. I may look into those in the future (if I may find the time. Life, right?)
On that note, she did indeed consent, and she was indeed enthusiastic. I could never live with myself if I found out I broke my subs trust and acted without their consent.
5 years ago

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