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5 years ago. August 19, 2019 at 12:17 AM

I read through the blogs, even the rants, and at the end of the day, I am still divided on whether or not rants are a good thing or not. Here's the dilema. A lot of rants are good, something to the tune of Doms ghosting subs, yeah, that's a good rant, and a problem because it hurts the community and need to be brought to light. Other rants, are emotionally charged opinions, looking to invoke an argument and division. In a small community that is judged by normal society on a daily basis, that division can be bad. Just my two cents, take it or leave it, but if something is bugging me, seems a little more intuitive to try and invoke the question on the blog instead of some emotional filled rant. Healthy discussion betters a community such as this, and helps us learn about each other, and ourselves.

CrimsonRose - Thank you for a dose of Sane, in the world of rants. I too believe that it is healthy to blow off steam but please try and learn from the situation by communicating with others who may have experience with the sort of dilemma you are experiencing.
5 years ago
Brattylittleprincess​(sub female){Scooby Alp} - Mmm Daddy, I may be a bit biased but your pretty awesome! Very well worded, even though I’m sure you know this 🙄😈😂
5 years ago
Scooby Alpha​(dom male){bratlitpri} - It also invites those "generalized" into the discussion to talk about their side. Many times, the ones who are being ranted about, have no desire to walk into an emotionally charged rant that has plenty of supporters already with no hope changing the tide. Nobody joined this website to be a martyr.
5 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Blogs to me, personally, are public journals... You shouldn't write for the mere fact of getting feedback.. it's a way to openly express yourself and get it ''out there' ... BUT With an understanding that doing so, you may or may not get feedback, good or bad.. but it's that choice you make by posting... I feel the Forum here lacks so much of Your Blog Title 'Healthy Discussion' I wish more people would post in the forum, to get that feedback, have a healthy discussion etc.. Great post! SA 😊
5 years ago
Scooby Alpha​(dom male){bratlitpri} - I feel like the forums get lost in translation. I don't even participate in them. I think giving feedback on Blogs is a better experience. I think people who get feedback appreciate it. Not the same on the forums.
5 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - I agree to an extent.. because for the thousands of members on here.. only a mere fraction write OR read blogs.. it's a shame. Both the none use of a forum for good discussion, feedback, and most importantly participation.. and then the personal attacks on blogs.. either written or posted. To me.. a libran, I weigh both sides and find it sad, but that's just me...😔
5 years ago
alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } - I feel that both can lead to a healthy chat. ( blogs and forums) . as for as venting in a blog or such it can be a healthy thing when done right. Lord knows that i have vented here and there.

I will also say that i , for one , done write either for replys and am always amazed.when i look at the veiws of my blog , so o have stopped looking at it.

Also would like to add that i have posted many blogs and forums looking for a health chat or more input on a subject. And have been jumped on ( negatively) by things that i have CLEARLY STATED were just my thoughts and feeling on a matter. Which is fine we dont all have to agree on anything but i feel we should be able to still chat and share viewpoints peacefully and respectfully. Just my thoughts on the subject.
5 years ago
ulfhednar - Usually if i rant it would have to seriously be poking my brain that the usualy things would fix reading drawing gaming walking ya know mundane everyday tasks other then that i also try my best to keep names out of it and do my best to not aim the rant at individuals and also just try and do my best to stay positive when i do post but yes ill addmit i get carried away but i am who i am
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Scooby Alpha​(dom male){bratlitpri} - Well hot damn, I saw this just as I posted a reply on yours. Read it and go forth, I look forward to a discussion.
5 years ago
ulfhednar - 😂😂😂 that is epic i just saw yours and replied this shit is gonna have nuts in it 😂😂😂😂
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