4 years ago. February 19, 2020 at 12:57 AM
Couldn't even get a lady interested in me in a conventional relationship so what hope is there in this? Too amny other things I need to do but will continue to post my poetry etc
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Lone Wolf Rumblings
I have always been a loner but loners sometimes have good thoughts. Like wolves, I like to run the mountains and landscapes were only a few goLone wolf Rumblings
Be true to who you truly are. facades only last for awhile and never improve to please others. Improve to be a better you.
LaVieEnRose(sub female){Learning }
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I believe you get what you put out in the universe, if you approach it with a positive attitude and just give it time you might be amazed what could happen xx
4 years ago
djinni(dom female){smplylaura}
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Ok hard truths here.
Rewrite your profile. You’ve lost 200lbs! That’s a huge accomplishment! Instead of following that up with a negative focus on the fact that you’ve done it and you have a lot to be proud of. In a forum post recently someone said something along the lines of some people will think you are hideous and others will find you irresistibly attractive... there really is someone for everyone. Confidence is key. I prefer curvier women and men with more meat on their bones... and I’m not alone. Same thing about age. Many women love older men.... especially if you are a daddy dom. Your age is NOT a factor. So stop blaming your lack of success on age and appearance. More likely it’s lack of confidence. If you go into every conversation already feeling as though you aren’t good enough, then they will think the same.
Relax. Post interesting and engaging blogs, not whiny passive aggressive stuff. Put some thought & effort into your profile. Do some research and educate yourself further into what and who you are in the lifestyle. A clear definition helps someone understand you. You say you are switch, if you lean strongly into being a sub then realize that Dom females (especially genuine ones) are rare and precious. They are inundated with pleas on a daily basis and you have to really stand out to get the attention of one.
I wish you luck.
Rewrite your profile. You’ve lost 200lbs! That’s a huge accomplishment! Instead of following that up with a negative focus on the fact that you’ve done it and you have a lot to be proud of. In a forum post recently someone said something along the lines of some people will think you are hideous and others will find you irresistibly attractive... there really is someone for everyone. Confidence is key. I prefer curvier women and men with more meat on their bones... and I’m not alone. Same thing about age. Many women love older men.... especially if you are a daddy dom. Your age is NOT a factor. So stop blaming your lack of success on age and appearance. More likely it’s lack of confidence. If you go into every conversation already feeling as though you aren’t good enough, then they will think the same.
Relax. Post interesting and engaging blogs, not whiny passive aggressive stuff. Put some thought & effort into your profile. Do some research and educate yourself further into what and who you are in the lifestyle. A clear definition helps someone understand you. You say you are switch, if you lean strongly into being a sub then realize that Dom females (especially genuine ones) are rare and precious. They are inundated with pleas on a daily basis and you have to really stand out to get the attention of one.
I wish you luck.
4 years ago