If I am not worth the effort of constant communication and being treated decently then you are not worth my investing time into us emotionally or physically any longer. If you had to tell me something bothers or hurts you I wouldn't need telling twice, and I sure as hell wouldn't leave you guessing as to why I'm not worth the time and effort.
I will not be emotionally manipulated, gaslighted or ghosted and I will also not be ignored. I am a patient creature but I do not fight for someone's attention, and I will also not beg you to do things that shouldnt even be an issue.
If I had a daughter who was being treated the way you are treating me and us I would tell her to move on in a heartbeat, and for that very reason I will do the exact same thing for myself.
I will not be made into an emotional yoyo just because you can't or won't step up and make a serious commitment, and if asking you to do any of these things is being toxic then I guess that answer the question by now doesnt it.
I'm not a side chick, I'm not a diversion when you're bored and I'm sure as hell not an option to be kept on standby.
Whatever your issues or reasons are, man up and do the right thing by me or have the decency to break it off stop messing me around. This is a learnt behaviour and I will not 'learn' to cope or live without you because otherwise there is no value or purpose in our relationship.