Musings of a Dom .... D/s relationships through the eyes of a Dom

We have all been there ... the beginning of the end. The part where you rationalize all the reasons to stay. The endless nights of restless sleep. That constant feeling in your gut, that you wish would go away. The incessant thoughts that won’t give you peace. All of this begs the question .. how do you know it’s over ?

You know it’s over ...

When …

the music stops, the dance ends

leaving only shadows on the wall

When …

memories flicker and fade into black

like fireflies in a glass jar

When …

the winds of change no longer carry

their scent

When …

love morphs into indifference

like the numbing effect of an opiate

When …

the last curtain drops

no more encores, just an empty stage

and ...

one

final

goodbye

* Never forget, when one door closes, another one paves the way to a new beginning.

~WW

proudbbw - I felt tht in my soul!!

5 years ago

Wicked Ways(dom male){venia} - Thank you ! So did I !

5 years ago

HGB(sub female){Scottish M} - This is beautiful. When I saw the title my mind thought when friends care and reach out more.

5 years ago

Wicked Ways(dom male){venia} - Thank you , I’m glad you liked it .

5 years ago

CrimsonPaw - I'm one of those people. I'll make up so many excuses for the abandonment and the indifference just to hold on a little bit longer. I hate endings 🙈

5 years ago

Wicked Ways(dom male){venia} - There one good thing that comes out of ending a relationship a new beginning.. If we start to believe in that, perhaps endings won’t feel as bad.

5 years ago

CrimsonPaw - Very true

5 years ago

Angel Wings(sub female) - OMGoodness your words are so true and yet sad. I hate goodbyes.

5 years ago

Wicked Ways(dom male){venia} - So do I Angel. I am firm believer in fate. If something is meant to be, it will remain. 1 second ago

5 years ago

venia(sub female){notlooking} - Wow. This hit home on so many levels. Thank you for sharing.

5 years ago

Wicked Ways(dom male){venia} - My pleasure ... always happy to share 🌹

5 years ago

KinkyWitch(sub female) - Funny how the universe works,...the last few weeks my guides have been screaming at me and showing me answers to my quest and thoughts but I sit in denial and continue to try,..even though deep down I know I am prolonging the inevitable hurt,...And then the universe puts your blog in my front of my eyes,...

Thank you,....😔💚💔🖤💚

5 years ago

Wicked Ways(dom male){venia} - Looks like the universe is turning for you!
Perhaps it’s time to start a new beginning. 👁

5 years ago

KinkyWitch(sub female) - You very well may be right but it’s 12 yrs that I’m contemplating letting go of....

5 years ago

venia(sub female){notlooking} - You can do it. I’m in the process of letting go of 17+. It’s not easy but it’s all about focusing on the long term positives, even though the short term can be incredibly painful. (Hugs)

5 years ago

Wicked Ways(dom male){venia} - You can do this ! My ex wife was my submissive for 20 years., and I let go. I will admit, it wasn’t easy. However, it was better than dying a slow death.

5 years ago

HGB(sub female){Scottish M} - I was married almost 21 years. I did it you can too. Just give yourself time to heal.

5 years ago

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Wicked Ways​(dom male){venia}

Musings of a Dom .... D/s relationships through the eyes of a Dom

How do you know it’s over ...

Wicked Ways(dom male){venia}