5 years ago. Saturday, February 15, 2020 at 4:54 PM
Wow where to start.
When I first joined, my mailbox was inundated with “do you need a dom...” and when I’d ask for specifics, I’d get a vague answer to the tune of “...I live the lifestyle...”
What the good green blazes does that MEAN.
Does that mean you are a sadist and cord your partner for breakfast?
Or does that mean you go to a masque and get your kink in there?
A COMMON QUESTION I like to ask a dom is:who sets the guidelines, and what is your idea of “thee” lifestyle.
Unfortunately, many can’t articulate what they’re about. At least that’s been my experience-and when I tell a dom what my expectations are, they fuss.