Kitty Kat Girl’s Corner

fet·ish

/ˈfediSH/

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noun

1.
a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.

On Sunday I was driving north on 900 East and saw two men walking southward. I don’t recall the attire of the man that was closest to the street, but the man to his left caught my attention to such a degree that I felt a strong physical and sexual reaction.

Indeed it was almost blinding.

He was dressed in a long black garment or coat that was open at his waist, it showed long, lithely muscled legs with dark hair and boots that made me think of punk doc martins. His groin was covered in black that looked like it was just material draped as a covering. His hair was dark and large, and he had his eyes darkened. He had a dark beard.

I don’t know if it was in fantasy I saw his eyes shielded with fine black lace, or it was reality. I’m not going to deliberate over the difference...

As powerful as that image was (and still is to me) I let it just simmer as I went about my dealings for the day. A run here, there, off to my community garden, then home again to do a little seamstressing on some of my ceremonial wear for Mass...

...I’m hemming this long black cassock and as I put it in to check the hem length...my mind went back to the steamy image of that man and his dark beauty walking down the street for all to see...and I realized this cassock and that long dark garment he was wearing were similar...

I let that thought roll around my brain as I stitched and pressed the cassock, and I realized I’d have to make some time to masturbate at leisure later on...

Sadly though, as I sped up and slowed down through my slippery routine, drawing it out and letting it simmer again, I totally wasn’t able to see any timing for you-the phone wasn’t showing any time markers and with my glasses off I couldn’t see the clock too well.

I so suck. So much for keeping track  

However-I’m starting to think I’m more into fetishes than I’d realized...I do have this thing about wanting to get my costume finished for some imagined fetish ball...

Anyway, thanks for your time. I hope your Monday goes well.

Meow.

So I’m trying to fit in with my DD. He’s worked in this lg with something I’ve wanted, now he’s bringing up edging again. Like for the third time. 

Any insights to this, positive or negative, would be incredibly helpful. 

Thanks in advance. 

~Meow

After a multi month search, I’m happy to admit I’ve had the first successful visit with a DD. 

Many months I’d spent looking, and even more time trying to verbalize exactly what it was/is that I’m looking for. 

How uneasy this can be sometimes. 

I’d even been upset with this man, and was told, “I’ve  never been given so much direction from someone seeking the bottom position...” proud I am to have been told that. Proud I am to have broke past that wall, and have asked for, and received, what I needed. 

Thank you, Mister T. For your patience. For your willingness to amend your own thought processes. To unselfishly satisfy a deep need. 

To artfully slap my ass for 40 minutes...and to hold me when I finally cried my release at the end...and to remain strong and caring and protective. 

Thank you...Your Little Girl. 

Wow where to start. 

When I first joined, my mailbox was inundated with “do you need a dom...” and when I’d ask for specifics, I’d get a vague answer to the tune of “...I live the lifestyle...” 

What the good green blazes does that MEAN. 

Does that mean you are a sadist and cord your partner for breakfast? 

Or does that mean you go to a masque and get your kink in there?

A COMMON QUESTION I like to ask a dom is:who sets the guidelines, and what is your idea of “thee” lifestyle. 

Unfortunately, many can’t articulate what they’re about. At least that’s been my experience-and when I tell a dom what my expectations are, they fuss. 

What is your favourite fetish?

FEET

What are your favourite qualities in a dominant?

SWEET, NURTURING, OBSERVANT

What are your favourite qualities in a submissive?

FLIRTY, DETAIL ORIENTED

What is your chief characteristic?

TEASE

What do you appreciate most in your friends?

COMPASSION

What would you consider your main fault as a dominant or submissive?

INDECISIVENESS

What is your favourite way to spend your time?

WITH FRIENDS

What quality do you most dislike in a dominant?

ASSUMPTIONS

What's your idea of happiness?

RIDING ON AN EMPTY ROAD

What's your idea of misery?

BEING SEPARATED FROM THOSE I LOVE

If not yourself, who would you choose to be?

ELIZABETH TAYLOR

Where would you like to live?

BY THE OCEAN

What is your favourite BDSM implement?

FORCEPS

What historical figure do you most identify with?

MADAME DE POMPADOUR

Who are your favourite authors (kinky and otherwise)?

TOLKIEN

What is your favourite representation of BDSM in popular culture?

SISSY MEN

How would you like to die?

IN THE ARMS OF THE ONE I LOVE

What is your personal maxim?

IM THE LITTLE TRAIN THAT COULD...I THINK I CAN I THINK I CAN...I DID IT!