Kitty Kat Girl’s Corner

rosethorn​(sub female) - Is edging something you do or don't want?

kittykatgirl​(switch female) - He has brought it up three times, so I’ll do it to please him.

rosethorn​(sub female) - He has brought it up ... i still haven't heard if its what you want to do. What type of edging are we on about because there are two types

kittykatgirl​(switch female) - I’m interested in doing it because he is. Am I as into it as he is? Nope. But this is a relationship thing I’m willing to do to make him happy, and, I’ll learn something.

rosethorn​(sub female) - Is it south you think you will like? Im asking which type of edging for a reason.... choking or orgasm? No kink shaming here hun.
Doing something for someone else.... i understand the need and want but two points. Ssc and rck both have consent in them for a reason. Two. Doing something because someone else wants you to, if you're feeling pushed into it and/or do it and find you don't like it but feel you keep having to for someone else is a very dodgy place to be where consent trust and communication can disappear quickly. He has brought it up repeatedly if he knows you don't want to why is he bringing it up? Is he taking care of what is his? Do you feel cared for looked after and treasured? Or feel like he is using you for a list of things he and only he wants to do? As a switch you know the Dom side. What would be your way of handling this situation as a top? Personally i only ever do anything because i want to or i think i might like it or curious about it and the same goes for whoever i am with too, there must be that connection of interest and wanting to otherwise either of you living with it afterwards is awful just a subs perspective. Just because im submissive doesn't mean i have to sub.

kittykatgirl​(switch female) - No choking just orgasm denial. Yeah I like your points.
Love your closing like too-“just because I’m submissive doesn’t mean I have to sub..”
Thank you.

rosethorn​(sub female) - Your welcome, the key is talking and having a think about things you might like too.. honestly as girls we don't hear that very often but its important you like it too... thing is he might not know what you do or don't like so he suggesting his hoping to get insight into yourself. So allow yourself to have a think for you and then have a chat with him. If anything your not comfy with you can share why, sometimes having safety measures in place means you like the idea more or not. Its difficult to talk about sometimes but they are the most worthwhile conversations worth having. Feel free to message me anytime. It's better it takes longer for you both to be happy and build something together than jump the gun it feel rushed and impact on your dynamic xxxx