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Kinky interactions for the D/s inclined

A list of my meanderings into the world of kink
6 months ago. October 6, 2024 at 6:03 AM

How do you respond when the toxicity is you?

 

I had some "friends" who went behind my back and contacted my ex. They believed the lies he told them about me.

 

Now they wonder why I can't get over it. 

 

They apologized. Sincerely. 

 

Thing is...... It's not enough. I don't think it will ever be enough.

That's when it occurred to me, I was the toxic component. I couldn't forgive. I couldn't forget. 

 

So, I cut ties.

 

I'm putting me first. 

It's not them, it's me. 

 

Final answer 

Ingénue​{VK} - If you like being toxic, this is a wonderful self-description.

Otherwise, looks like plain old boundary setting to me and opening room up for new and better friendships.
6 months ago
TigerBDSM​(dom male)​{looking} - Control the variables you can control.
Focus on your best life, those who are on your wavelength will find you and appreciate you.
Those who do not understand should be dismissed.
6 months ago

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