With few exceptions I’ve never talked about being bi. I’ve been thinking a lot about it lately as to why it’s so hard.
It’s never been hard for me to tell anyone I’m kinky or poly, but with few exceptions maybe the orientation on a profile I’ve always let people assume whatever.
I think perhaps I’ve been afraid people in and out of the lifestyle would judge me for it. I’ve been judged I should say by people in and outside of the lifestyle. I guess like everyone I just want to be accepted.
I’m older now and with hindsight I see many missed opportunities at so much fun. I’ve thought a lot about it and I guess this blog is
My baby steps into telling people flat out that I’m bi I suppose.
My girl and I have been looking for a sub couple for awhile and what we have been finding are couples where they only want my girl to top them while I watch. (I have no desire to be a cuck).
My girl is my slave and while she is an alpha slave she is no top. When I describe what I am looking for a consistently get ghosted.
I suppose because I talk about safety and actually meeting off-line it scares them away. I can only be who I am and that means online is a meeting place. Then perhaps a munch or public meeting etc.
I wandered a bit there lol.
In any case I am a male bisexual dominant and I can and will enjoy it all.
