I have heard this comment from so many submissives, that i want to write about it. It goes something like this, “i wont ever show you my littleness until there is complete trust” or “I am afraid of showing you who i really am, and who i want to be”. Or, “I will never show my Dom these things because I know they are viewed as derogatory and people will judge me badly and poorly for it. My friends will leave me, if they knew the real me”
To that, I say , F. Them, if they knew the real you, and they judged you like that, and then left you. Good riddance. They are not the real friends that you need, want and crave. Make new ones, make real friends, who will love and care for you, no matter what. These people are what you need. And if you go about life, waiting for the trust to develop before you reveal to your significant people, who you really are, then you will be waiting forever. Waiting for Gadot. It will never come,
Be yourself, be kind and caring, and as long as you are not hurting anyone , then i dont see the harm in revealing your true self. It will set you free and give you such feelings of self confidence and love, and happiness. Trust me, i am the doctor!!!!!
