We all like our Sirs. Well we should anyways. And we all like to spend time with our Sirs. We like talking with them, sending pictures to them. Just generally being with them. It’s natural. But let’s take a second to talk about when Sir is busy.
These past few days I’ve been extra. It’s okay, it happens sometimes. I’ve needed extra attention and extra affection and my Sir has been so forthcoming and accommodating with it it’s been amazing. He told me yesterday as we were saying goodbye and good night that he is going to be very busy today and won’t be able to pay as much attention to me. My first instinct was sad. But I understand that my Sir is a live person and he has responsibilities and a life and it can’t revolve around me. Instead of letting that blip of sad settle I grabbed myself by the bootstraps, put on my big girl panties and got over it. I took the night to think about things I could do to keep myself occupied while my Sir was busy and ways to make it not so sad that communication will be limited.
So here are my tips on things to do while your Sir is doing Sir things:
1. Go for a walk.
~step outside and get some fresh air it will make you feel better. And there is something so cathartic about pushing and exercising your body. Plus it’s a good way to stay in shape and work on your endurance and just imagine the possibilities for what Sir will put you though with an increased endurance. 😉
2. Color a picture.
~I find coloring to be a good stress relief. There is something so soothing about the colors. Plus there are fun kinky coloring books you can color and send the picture to your Sir.
3. Take a bath/shower.
~turn that water in as hot as your body can handle. Throw in those bubbles or bath salts. Light a candle. Play some music. Grab a glass of wine and a good book and just relax. It will be good for your headspace. And you will be relaxed and ready for Sir whenever he is done and then you can take care of him better.
4. Look at a picture of Sir.
~sometimes that’s all we need. Look at his picture. Ask for a voice recording of him saying your favorite phrase and play that. Reread old messages. It isn’t the same as having him there I know but it will stave off the sadness and loneliness while you wait for him to be available.
5. Take cute pictures of yourself.
~my Sir likes it when I send him cute pictures of me. I love Snapchat filters so it makes me happy and I know that he will appreciate the picture. And think about how much you like random messages during the day. Your Sir likes them too and it’s a great way to say “hey I know your busy but I’m thinking about you and I can’t wait until you’re done with whatever you’re doing and I’ll be here to help you destress”. And no one said that the pictures had to be “G” rated. I’m sure that no Sir is going to be mad about a random sexy picture.
Those are some of the things I do and will be doing while my Sir is busy. If you have any other tips please leave them in the comments. I hope that this has helped you guys at least a little. And remember we all understand!! Have fun. Stay Safe. Keep on Kinking On. 💋
~PM
