So my Sir has been sick for a little while now. And that’s okay. We have to remember that our Sirs are people too and they do have off days and they do get sick. Here are some things you can do to help them get through it and to get through it yourself. And some ways to handle the emotions that come with it.
Ways to support a sick Sir:
- make sure they are taking care of themselves. This may seem like an obvious one and it kinda is but make sure that they are drinking water, eating food, sleeping enough. Just support them and check in.
- send cute messages and pictures. Sweet messages and pictures will make them smile. And smiles are some of the best medication.
- Listen to them. Give lots of kisses and hugs and just basic comfort and love. Being vanilla at this time is okay.
Now the feelings that come with a sick Sir. Be prepared ladies and gentlemen because these ones knock you on your ass. You’re gonna feel anxious, helpless, sad. You’re gonna miss them. You’re gonna feel uncertain. This is okay. This is normal. You’re not going to lose your relationship. Everything is still okay. They aren’t gonna leave and they aren’t intentionally making you feel this way.
- write out your feelings to process. If you journal like I do make sure you are doing this. It helps.
- Have them give you simple tasks or give yourself those tasks. Don’t slack on things just because they cannot hold you accountable.
- Communication communication communication. This is a huge huge thing. You need to keep talking. Express your feelings. Talk to them. They will understand. They may be sick but they still understand.
I’m sure there’s more and I really want to hear what you guys do when your Sirs are sick so please comment any other suggestions. And you know your Sir best you know what they need. Always trust your gut. And remember, stay safe, have fun and keep on kinking on.
~PM 💋
