the monster hunter
This is a little thing I wrote on another site long ago about a sub that I learned a lot from and taught me an important part of being a dom.
I was still young in both age and lifestyle I think around 25 and still under the tutelage of a master when this young girl fell into my lap she was mentally and emotionally messed up. and I went to my master and told him about her and the fact that I was not sure I could help her. Do you know what he said to me "it's too late now she trusts you and has asked for help you are obligated to help you are the dom we don't get to choose the easy ones that's not what a man does he takes what is given and works through it probably will not last but when she chooses to move on she will be better then when she came"
This was my ah s*** moment, he was right, there is no such thing as being too much, relationships take work even in the vanilla world over the next 2 years I worked on finding all the monsters of her past helping her to either tame them or removing them from her life. Was there much s/m in the teaching and learning yes more then I liked but sometimes to remove pain, to the soul pain must be used. Her problems ranged from the full gambit emotional, physical, and sexual abuse. I said she was a mess. she had lost any control over herself and her life she was dead inside and felt that sex was all she was good for so she used that in exchange for room and board. It took about 6 months to get her up to where she could accept the fact the yes the brain she had was capable of learning and becoming a value to herself and the rest of the world. The next 18 months were spent on her learning to control her monsters at the end of her time with me she had worked hard and I guided her picked her up when she fell down cuddled or beat her when it was needed. today she is a leader in the profession and getting ready to retire herself and asked if she could come around. She does not need me she has been with the same woman for twenty years now. and her mate wants to meet me and thank me for giving her the best thing in her life. THAT, MY FRIENDS, IS REALLY THE BEST REWARD ANY DOM CAN EXPECT IN LIFE THE HAPPINESS OF A SUB YOU TRAINED.
