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A have received a request that as some one who has some experience in this form of Dom/sub relations as I in formed them this is a very difficult thing to try to explain so forgive me if some thing does not sound right. In order to understand high protocol you must first understand both etiquette and manners. If you really want to know you must first read and understand books on these two subjects and high-lite the sub part but I will tell you a lot of it will at first seem useless in today's way of looking at things. Many people now disregard most of the books on manners because most believe respect is something you earn not so respect is a given it is up to the one given that respect to prove that they do not deserve your respect. Now let me explain a little in reference to our lifestyle, the sub give respect to the Dom but what is not always taken into account is the respect the Dom gives his sub now I'm not talking when at play I am talking in everyday life there is a certain form of address between couples in public this may or may not change behind closed doors. Now we run into the problem of outsiders in our way there are tiers of respect first there is your sir second is his designated substitute or stand in in the case of this family that is sir John then comes friends and here is where it get tricky a dom may come across as a friend and may well be but he is never to be considered a peer he/she can not be and must be given  higher form of respect then you would give a peer I will give an example that most have heard if one black man addresses a close friend as his nigger i can be acceptable however no matter how close even brothers the term would never be acceptable if used in public it comes with a belittling affect that crosses the border into disrespect even when not meant to. ( I apologize for the use of that word but it is the best example I could think of while writing).  i will be happy to answer any specific questions if you have any