sir james ladies(sub female){oh yes ple}

taxi's ladies

A poly family. We are 6 mothers 2 grandmothers an aunt.

rules 9-10

3 years ago. September 12, 2020 at 8:15 PM

As with 7-8, 9 and 10 are closely related and later I came to understand sir Jame's advice about it "these are important to any relationship but even more important to a poly or family relationship"

9) Leave a note somewhere they will run across it during the day expressing love or gratitude for them. And don't say it's hard to find the time for god sake's sir James is dead and yet every Friday like clock work 7 boxes of flowers are delivered to the ranch and a box is sent to ranger girl at her station. On birthdays some little piece of jewelry is sent to the house for the birthday girl even in death he found a way to say I love you. It is a very little thing but it means so much to the one it's given to.

10) The expression of lust is important to a relationship but not as important as just going out to diner, movie or dancing. Or even just sitting at home with your arms around them in front of the t.v. Somehow we always know just who needs the cuddle time so give it no matter how bad your week has been you can be sure that their week has been worse why because your sub will not only put up with a bad week herself but will worry about your week as well and you can't train that out of them.

These are the ten rules that a Dom of this house lives by they are very simple and because of that they are easy to forget or pass over on any given day. So how do you avoid that simple write them down put them in a frame on your desk and read them every morning like I do to remind yourself of just how fu***** lucky you are. to have someone in your life who's only reason to live is for your love and comfort.

Thank you for taking the time to read and understand our way of lifestyle. It is not for everyone but it works for us.

Sir Don(dom male){Not lookin} - Awesome thanks for the post . All are so important for every dynamic..

3 years ago

sir james ladies(sub female){oh yes ple} - yes that is why they are the first 10 from here you can adapt and add what each person need's to feel happy in there dynamic just by adding what you need.

3 years ago

Grey Eyes(sub female){Owned} - Sir John, as always you have my thanks for explaining the details. I admit I especially like your second to last paragraph. Sometimes, it may be easy to loose sight of that.

3 years ago

sir james ladies(sub female){oh yes ple} - yah I have them on bathroom door as well as my desk it helps me keep perspective in life.

3 years ago

slaveMikayla(sub female){MstrJ } - Helpful hint for any readers... #9 works both ways. <3 This is something I did for 8 years of marriage. At first it was long letters hidden in his briefcase, but over time they became smaller sometimes just a post it or a note on a napkin.... but the writing was important and hiding them was fun. If he hadnt found it by lunch time he would have to call and ask where I'd hidden it (point for me). Truly, this is something that can add fun, intention, and meaning in a very small gesture.
He ended up with boxes and bags of my letters filling desk drawers and the bottoms of closets.

"because your sub will not only put up with a bad week herself but will worry about your week as well and you can't train that out of them." Accurate. Not even sure why you'd want to TRY to train that out of us.... it's what makes us who we are. If we didnt care about our Person's happiness and comfort more than our own we wouldn't be us.

Thank you for sharing these rules. They are well thought out, and well explained.

3 years ago

sir james ladies(sub female){oh yes ple} - very simple to our way of life it is the responsibility of the Dom to keep the worry out of your life as much as possible so that motherhood and submission are the only things to consider but as you said it is part of the submission and can't be taken out only mitigated as much as possible

3 years ago

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taxi's ladies

rules 9-10

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