How do you do, I am addressed as sir Tim I am a member of the house of Jane. this may be the only time I feel the need to blog or be in contact in any way. But I felt this is needed for the potential sub's on here. and I will be brief. This I hope will help to stop some hart felt pain I have run across and a constant stream of blog's on this subject. Many of the sub's have problems in vetting a possible Dom for themselves so here is the basic secret to establishing trust for each other from the beginning.
1) your potential Dom should be willing to give you his full name. with photo. You then take this and get on the net to one of the background sites and spend the money for a complete check This will establish him/her as a cheater or not, if he is able to afford the keeping of a sub or slave. does he have a criminal past. these are the main things. it can and does delve further but it will be up to you if you want to look or not.
Dear sub's
This is not romantic but you will quickly find this will save you pain in the future if you do this. and after all you are looking for a partner in crime for the rest of your life, trust starts from the beginning if you start right you will have a better chance of it ending right.
Dear Dom's/Domma's
the above will be worth it to yourself as well.
thank you Sir Tim
