Agape= is more than an emotion. It is a sentiment expressed by actions.
Agape is both easy and hard to see when expressed by a Dom easy in the way he just sets his actions free but are hard sometimes for his sub to see but over time they will find the consistency in them. And this is key they must always be seen as to the benefit of the sub or even more difficult to his sub's. This takes time to study how his decisions affect all and sometimes these decisions are to his loss that is the true mark of a great Dom he puts the need of his subs first.
(Quote, we are the knight's little girls dream about but alas we are also men or women and are subject to mistakes) Sir Tim
(Quote, any future Dom's out there remember you must be ready to avenge an insult to your chosen and this means paying the price for the punishment the law may decide to give you) Sir John
(Quote, the one phrase that has always pissed me off was " you have won her trust" God damn it I did not win it I fking earned it) Sir James
Agape expression is easier for the Dom to see but is so much harder for an alfa sub to express for we are hard to see and even harder to admit the truth of what we are. We cannot be won with words alone and we judge hard the actions we are shown. But the true Dom those that lead with love are patient men/women. They will wait for you to admit they dominate us and are worthy of all we offer. They even in most cases have earned the right to say I told you so, but they will never say it so secure in themselves and their choices. But then again, we are not children. we may be littles or brats or masochists or yes even sluts like me, but we all crave one thing a leader. One that truly knows our value and values us more then we value ourselves.
We youngsters are fortunate for the great umbrella that we enjoy now thanks to those who came before B.D.S.M. has come to be the catchphrase for every kink the human mind can come up with. But it must be remembered that it is all about the sex we like to indulge in. And while great it is not the core that is agape and that has nothing to do with sex.
Remember before that catchphrase we were just a bunch of mentions under abnormal behaviors in a textbook somewhere.
Mari
