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6 years ago. April 5, 2018 at 12:25 AM

I'm been thinking lately that in a world with over 7 billion people how realisticis it to expect to find that special someone living in the same town as you let alone country.

With modern technology connection with people around the globe is easy, maybe too easy.  The problem then is moving the connection to the next level.

So here is the question I pose

If it's unrealistic to expect to find that special person at your back door.  How do you build a meaningful relationship from the other side of the world?

Fyglia Wicked​(dom female) - If its real both peolpe will find a way
6 years ago
Bunnie - I’ve struggled with this concept from the moment I joined this site and met such fantastic people... on the other side of the world. Time differences are a challenge, the possibility of meeting is definitely a challenge. Realistic? Who knows. Possible? Everything is possible. I have a constant battle between my inner romantic who still believes in fairytales, and my inner critic who thinks it’s ridiculous. I guess it just comes down to individual choice. Do you want to try it or not? If you want to try, then you build something that works for those involved, and as long as it works for you all, it doesn’t matter what it looks like from the outside. I guess from a practical perspective, it requires much the same as any other form of relationship... communication, honesty, respect, friendship, love, trust, connection.
6 years ago
ric840147 - I must admit to wanting to chase the fairy tale. I also agree 100% that it comes down to what all good relationships should be based on "communicaton, honesty, respect, friendship, love, trust and connection. "

Never stop being a romantic.
6 years ago
Devil's damsel​(sub female){HandsomeDe} - I’ve had the same conversation with my Master many times. We’ve discussed our belief in, scepticism of, and possibility of soulmates. We have been too tired (and in my case, definitely NOT mathematically inclined enough) to calculate the odds that two people with so much in common can find each other on a little website that caters to a tiny sliver of the population. The thing is we did find each other, we do live in different countries, we have a time difference, we have an 8 hour drive one way to see each other, but none of that matters. We have an undeniable connection that I won’t give up for an entire backyard full of men (innuendo not intended, as hysterical as it is).
6 years ago
ric840147 - It pleases me to read your message and know that the dream is worth chasing. That no matter where we are if we have the passion, the desire and the commitment we will endure.
6 years ago
Bella duPuy​(sub female){Not lookin} - ... Very encouraging. Thank you for posting.
6 years ago
Bella duPuy​(sub female){Not lookin} - Topic query "... How do you build a meaningful relationship from the other side of the world?"

Response... with each Communication whether cyber, telephonically, email, text message, letter-writing, or telepathically, it must be done, thusly:
° Truthfully
° Vulnerably
° S l o w l y
° ThoughtFULLy
° Transparently
° Timely
° Beautifully
° Boldly
° Confidently
° Creatively
° HopeFULLy
° Brilliantly
° Reverently
° RespectFULLy
° Adventurously
° Wholly
° Completely
... in Time & with Trust gained, with ° Abandonment.

That's what i see is needed.

Be well,
Peace
6 years ago

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