There is a lot of dialogue on the actions of scammers on here and other sites. It will happen in every walk of life and as a community I think we do a fairly good job of self-policing.
I think it fair to point out that Pro Dom(me)s are not the same thing.
Lots of people find it hard with any relationship, let alone taking your clothes off and discussing your deepest desires and acting them out....that's a big leap of confidence and faith and I know some can get carried away with promises of fulfilled dreams.
I am a moderately experienced sub/masochist, I have played at events and publically, in private, I have always found that these are very safe environments because you have plenty of time, maybe at munches previously, or through people you do know in the community, to trust and connect with a play partner.
I finally took the step of booking a session with a Pro Domme this week. Slightly apprehensive...thoughts that I would just turn up, get bent over a chair and beaten and thrown out of the door. But sometimes the feeling gets too strong....
I could not have been more wrong. I e-mailed asking politely if Miss would have time to see me. She spent time asking me about my particular likes, how I felt about booking a session.
How was I about visiting? Did I understand that she was going to do everything to make my day a happy one?
Sounds like advertising. I can tell you it was not.
Miss Anna was more inclusive than any play partner I have ever had, she spent lots of her own time re-arranging a venue (at her own cost) to accommodate me for our session.
She had clearly noticed every little thing I said during our many e-mails before the session, she was very attentive and the moment I walked in, she was a person first and my Miss second.
We talked again. Then at total ease, She was my Miss.
I was treated very strictly but with understanding, she didn't just thrash me. She was incredibly sensual, noticing my excitement, this most beautiful of Mistresses knowingly placing a mirror so I could see her beginning to use an assortment of implements on my quivering bottom.
Her outfit...oh I mentioned boots, mentioned PVC, but wasn't expecting this. She is an absolutely beautiful Lady. Totally my type and here she was....walking around making sure I could see these amazing PVC thigh high boots...all lacy...oh my and a PVC mini-skirt.
I worshipped her boots. I don't have a foot fetish but it was fucking awesome. She looked so gorgeous and that's for my benefit. I'm worth it. I'm a sub but it was so powerfully good to have her show me that she enjoyed the fact that I like this too.
With a sore bottom and a hard cock I am led to the chair...arms out legs spread sitting facing forward.
My nipples....I asked for this I had almost forgotten so wrapped up already in the moment.....oh just walking up to me...that gorgeous beautiful face...grabs my nipples and starts to twist and come real close to my face....oh I'm in heaven.
She retrieved a riding crop and stood so close to me....flicking my nipples with the crop...and now and then standing back for a better swing...(and a great view?)
Such sore nipples...then she gets two clips, places one on each nipple....and starts to sensually rub up right in my face while twisting and pinching those clips. Biting my gag so hard I can feel so many things right now.
She then pulls me close to her face by my nipples. She is rubbing this delicious boot-covered thigh between my legs and making sure we have lots of body contact.
Our eyes are as close as you can get...staring intently at each other with primarily a great connection, a happiness, however also differing emotions as she really starts rubbing her PVC clad thigh between my legs at the same time as really making sure my nipples have taken more than they should.
A beautifully intense experience. Almost spiritual and one I cannot wait to repeat.
This is only the first part of an absolute dream day. My experience was unforgettable.
My ultimate point is....if it involves money, it's not always bad. This amazing lady made my dreams come true. It cost her money, time, effort to understand me and my needs, which she did perfectly, and I basically booked a hotel room and paid her for it.
It wasn't a very expensive hotel room either.
This lady loved what she did, and we shared a very special day.
Pro Dom(me)s aren't scammers, they just cover expenses.
And, at least in my case, it was one of the greatest experiences of my life.
Z.
