All of us here know the once vanilla life we lived is still there. Once you get into the BDSM lifestyle you get that feeling of not wanting any other lifestyle. Well at least for me it happened that way.
Tonight i met up with some friends for dinner and one them didnt know a few of the people that were sitting with us. I explained who they were except for one. I didnt know who he was. The friend sitting across the table overheard the conversation and said, "well he's why you're here". I immediately went from a smiling face to a confused look. I asked her what she meant. She said, "we wanted to introduce you to him". (Keep in mind out of the 7 of us sitting at the table only 1 besides myself knows that I prefer the bdsm lifestyle). See where this is going yet? Lol At that point he gets up and walks over to where I'm sitting and pulls up a chair and begins to introduce himself.
I'm not going to lie, at this point I was a little irritated with my friends for not giving a heads up about this guy being at dinner. As we were talking I noticed that this guy has nothing in common with me...at...all. The friend to the right of me is the 1 that knows about the lifestyle. He gets up and excuses himself. She leans over and says "Yeah...I dont think hes into the lifestyle you prefer. I've been listening to the conversation. You would dominate him as a submissive". I could not help but laugh because I was thinking the same thing.
Dont get me wrong, I love my friends and appreciate what they tried to do. I asked them why they felt the need to do the somewhat blind date set up and they said they were just trying to help. My rebuttal was simple...."if you want to help, please dont do this again".
Even if I was wanting a vanilla lifestyle, that man would still not be someone I would be interested in. Thanks but no thanks.
