This Sub's Space

I think this is just a rant. I don't understand why people can't just be who they are and be honest about it? If you can't be who the other person says they need, then just man or woman up and say so. I mean, I'm a submissive but if the Dom I was talking to is looking for a brat and that's not me, no matter how well we get along, I have to tell him I'm not a brat. I can't be what you're looking for. Do we continue talking, being friends or do we walk away? This lifestyle is built on trust, respect, honesty, and communication. And that really shouldn't be any different online or in real life. Ok, rant over!