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the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate.
5 years ago. Saturday, October 10, 2020 at 9:29 AM

i was scrolling through my Facebook feed and saw this ad. I thought why would Facebook be showing me BDSM rigging equipment? This is going to far! So i clicked on the ad and to my surprise it has nothing to do with bondage play. It is zip line equipment. 

Now I know these things could be used in a kinky way but i am relieved a bit that Facebook can't read my mind, lmao!

5 years ago. Monday, October 5, 2020 at 9:06 AM

i suppose if this was reversed and a man made this post about woman being the maids then some women would find it sexist.

However if a cleaning company placed this picture on an ad for their cleaning services i would probably have the cleanest house in town!

Just sayin'!

5 years ago. Sunday, October 4, 2020 at 2:51 PM

I have accepted SensualDom's challenge: 

https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?postid=42633&blog_id=45308

The heat of your breath, 

The intensity of your touch excites me 

Blindfolded consumed with your power!

 

 

5 years ago. Friday, October 2, 2020 at 3:50 PM

 

A Knotty Pine?

5 years ago. Thursday, October 1, 2020 at 8:26 PM

 

"I think I'd have to start with your scrumptious ear lobes. You won't believe how lovely it feels when a nice moist tongue slides up through the crease, nibbling and gently tugging on your soft cartilage. I'll whisper with my hot breath in your ear, confiding in you my craving to taste your delicious pussy."

Yes, I know that there are times that the sadistic dominant male in a BDSM relationships will bind and inflict pain play with their submissive toys solely for their amusement and from my masochist slave view point i greatly enjoy and understand that power exchange.

BUT!

The slow sensual arousal that builds when being treated with tenderness and when the dominant takes total control slowly, quietly and powerfully makes me weak and causes a major tingle.

Quoted from Psychology Today:

There are different ways for a person to be dominant, but researchers consider social dominance to include traits like being authoritative, in control, and taking a leadership role. However, such traits are not normally associated with kind, caring people.

Dominant people tend to be more self-centered and insensitive to others’ feelings, not traits most of us seek in a romantic partner. For dominant individuals to be seen as desirable mates, they need to combine that commanding personality with other traits that show a willingness to be generous and helpful. Women want a partner who is competitive with others but treats them well.

Evolutionary psychologists claim that women prefer dominant partners because such men have superior genes. Evidence has shown that women prefer more dominant men when they themselves are at the most fertile point of their menstrual cycle, whereas most men do not similarly seek out dominant women.

A good article that a new dominant might find interesting is:

What is Sensual Domination? It's seduction not aggression. 

Yes for me, a true submissive personality, i love to have my mind stimulated by softly spoken words of what is going to be done with me and what i am going to be made to do.

Swoon!

 

5 years ago. Thursday, September 10, 2020 at 9:21 AM

5 years ago. Wednesday, September 9, 2020 at 10:33 AM

 

When your Snapchat kissing mouth picture looks like a butthole!

Yikes!

5 years ago. Friday, September 4, 2020 at 9:26 AM

 

 

5 years ago. Monday, August 31, 2020 at 8:32 AM

5 years ago. Saturday, August 22, 2020 at 3:59 PM

Lips!

Smiling!

Happy Lips!

i love lips that are smiling!

Happy lips share positivity,  yes?

Peace!