Kindness

i was chatting with a friend here at The Cage and we were discussing spanking and what our preference to spanking tools are. This is my favourite,  it is a stiff leather paddle the has a flat metal rod in the center of the leather to make it stiff and solid. It makes a wonderful smacking sound on contact and gives a nice rosey red color to my pale bottom.

i decided to share a picture with my friend so without thinking i went into Masters toy chest, laid it on the bed and took the picture. 

As i was finishing my chat Sir came into the room and looked at the paddle lying on the bed.

i froze because i knew immediately what i had done.

i bowed my head and apologized for not asking permission to open the toy chest. Then got on my knees an begged for mercy!

Master is a devil and i heard him laugh before He said,"if you wanted a spanking all you needed to do was ask!"

Needless to say i am sitting gently today on a very sore bottom.

My friend did not understand why i was not given relief for my wiggly wet mess after the spanking and the answer is that a punishment spanking is much different from a arousing spanking and meant for one purpose and one purpose only. To help remind me that rules are rules and when i break the rules a punishment helps as a reminder.

Fantasy Wishes and Dreams

Everyone thinks i'm honey,
But i'm really not.

Most will never see it though
Unless it's really sought!

Bees are very docile creatures
Collecting food each day

All bees really care about
Is the Queen they say!

Everyone thinks i'm honey
But i'm really not!

i am really like the bee,
If it's ever caught!

The bee will sting to protect the hive
Though its certain death.

You will see its the same with me
Even if its my last breath!

 Dsclaimer: Master and i are fine and still very much in love. This blog was posted only because the picture spoke to me. I see so many deleted accounts due to failed attempts at love on both sides, men and women! Peace friends!

i had a thought that i wanted to share. i know that thoughts can be viewed as opinions so if i offend anyone, that is not my intent.

People often ask if what Master and i share is real and does our family know of our lifestyle.

Actually it is not anyone else's business what lifestyle we lead if we practice SSC. Our kink is practiced in private but in public i address Him as Sir mostly and when required as Master.

But the point of this blog is to give credit to my Master for being just that, in command of his life and mine. He leads me 24/7and i know if there is a problem He is already on it. But the best part is that we make a perfect team. He is the Captain, i am the first mate.

Most marvel at our totally committed relationship and congratulate us for the love we still show one another after all of these years but it's so much more than that.

Its the strength to survive the bad times, to understand that it's okay not to like each other sometimes but we always feel love for one another and are mature enough to still be able to laugh , kiss and hug at the end of each day.

As i sit and ponder on another blessed day i think of my friends here and send positve love to each of you! i feel like i have my cake and get to eat it too!

i wish that you may find that connection too!

Peace friends!

Minx:
An alluring, cunning, or boldly flirtatious girl or woman. Has unusual seductive powers such that she could commit acts that would otherwise be considered inappropriate, while still maintaining an air of class or poise.

The little minx that cunning girl
She has cute cheeks and hair that curls.

She looks at you with eyes that shine
You know naughty things are on her mind.

She is so bad with her lustful ways
The boys all blush each an every day.

The little minx will rethink her foley
Hold her head up high and is always jolly.

Then she lays back with great repose
And paints each of her pretty pink toes

Because she knows they love her kink,
And what she writes with all the ink.

So don't close your eyes, dont even blink.
The minx will pinch, then you'll be jinxed.

She is boldly flirtatious with all she meets,
With seductive powers and tasty treats.

Yes indeed she's in a class of her own
Impish, naughty and completely owned.

Master keeps her on short leash
Because she is an impish beast!