Kindness

Remember when you were a child and your mother and father would tell you to say please and thank you when you wanted something? To say excuse me if you wanted to interrupt a conversation.
Have we forgotten our manners here at The Cage?
Subs bash doms, doms try to intimidate subs, and more often than not there is never please or thank you. Often orders are to be followed without an established relationship.
I have found in my own relem that kindness and honesty are key when meeting new people. "I am fine today, thank you for asking." "No I am sorry I am not interested, but thank you for the message." It is hard to be mean to someone who is nice and kind.

I am not a doormat and I will not be disrespected but I can still be strong and kind.
Dig deep within yourselves and please remember your manners.

Love and kindness can cure the world!

I am lost, he finds me. I am hurt, he heals me. I am scared, he comforts me. I am weak, he is strong for me. 

Master is my everything without me even having to ask.

Little one he says, "I will always love you and be there for you."

That's why I live to  please him!

Thank you Master! I love you too!

An email came in from a Dom with no profile, he said "wanna be my sub?" I asked, "Respectfully, have you read my profile?" He responded, "No I dont have time!" My answer then was, "Then the answer to your question is no I dont have time!"

Master and I were at the lake house working on the remodel when Master came to his slut and showed her the ropes he had used to secure the new refrigerator in the truck during transport. Her eyes widened with excitement because her Master was a magician when it came to  bondage, this slut knew playtime was near!

"Little one while I was releasing these ropes from the wooden frame casing of the refrigerator I thought it might be fun to see you bound to this frame. I want you to remove your clothes and stand naked inside the frame." 
When I was naked and standing inside the frame he bound my arms one on the right side and one on the left.  Then he spread my legs and tied each ankle first the left, then the right to each side of the frame.  Now Master backed away and looked at me with a very thoughtful look.  I began to speak and he stop me by putting up his hand and closing his eyes.  I knew that meant to be silent and I complied looking down at the floor, wishing only to please him.
Then he spoke quietly "Little one looking at you bound this way makes me want to whip your body.
I want to watch your skin become red and welted.  I want to whip you till you beg me to give you your orgasm because I know that the pain from the whipping makes your pussy tingle with excitement and drip with wetness."
I waited for permission to speak but I was still not permitted to. Master walked around me looking at my naked bound body and he seemed tormented but I could not speak to give my Master words of comfort. He ran his fingers from the back if my neck to the tip of my spine touching each bone with strong pressure causing a natural muscle spasm to run through my body. Then he came to the front of me and grasped my nipples one in each hand and he said "Look at me little one, look at me so I can tell that the pinching of your nipples is exciting you, because when the pain I inflict excites you that pleases me! I looked into Masters eyes and waited, the pressure started slowly at first then increased gradually until a sharp piercing pain shot through each nipple feeling like a shot of
electrical current ran right to my clit, I gasp and Master frowned so I knew not to utter another sound, not even was I permitted to moan. I pulled on the ropes holding on with my hands and arched my back moving toward Master as much as I could while breathing deeply to work through the pain. Then suddenly Master released my nipples and left me there alone. He walked out of the house for what seemed like 20 minutes. He had not spoken a word to me, he had just walked way.
I was confused and so every excited but then he returned.  He was holding a canvas strap which was wrapped around his fist. Then he spoke saying "Now my slut I need to whip you, I am going to give you 5 strikes on your front starting at your thighs and ending on your chest and then I am going to whip your back with 5 strikes starting at your shoulders and ending on your bottom where I will give you the last 5 strikes. You may ask for more when I am finished and that would please me but I will understand and not punish you more if you are at your limit."
"Oh and I brought with me a new toy for you to enjoy while I whip you and you may cum as much as you can during this playtime but if you speak or scream we will stop and you will be unbound and unsatisfied and I will be very disappointed." The toy Master showed me was a vibrating butt plug that he lubricated and inserted gently into my tight anal bud.
I wiggled my body to adjust to the feeling and shook my head showing that I understood and he smiled, then he turn on the plug. The vibration sent stimulation right to my pussy and brought on a spontaneous orgasm. Master quickly moved and landed the first on strike on my thighs, then across the front of my hip bones striking just above my clit sending a shudder through my body. Then the next strike hit my abdomen and I had to grit my teeth so as not to squeal. Imagine trying so hard to concentrate on breathing and not verbally react to the massive amounts of sensations running ramped in my body and mind. The final blow across my chest was all it took to shake me into another orgasm.  How would I endure 10 more strikes?
Master saw the effects the beating was having on his slut and he said "You can use your safe words at anytime little one without worrying about disappointing me. Say yellow and we will readjust or red and we will stop." I shook my head yes that I understood and I would continue. I wanted to whisper thank you but knew better than to speak even in a whisper.
Master moved to my back and I held tightly to the ropes and braced for the impact. First was the strike to my shoulders, then my back again and again Master hit me.  I strained and shook but I didn't even sigh,  then two strikes one right after the other. "That makes 10 strikes little one, just 5 more to go then you will be able to beg your Master to push your limit.
I took the strikes one after the other breathing and twisting,  the movement constantly moving the butt plug sending vibration into my pussy and I came so hard I almost fainted.
Master waited for me to catch my breath and held me in his arms gently caressing me stoking my hair as I laid my head on his shoulder.
He said "Now little one do you have something to ask me?" I took a deep breath and whispered "Yes Master, please may I have 5 more strikes, Sir."
"Oh my perfect slave, I love you more than I can ever express in words." And with that Master untied my arms and feet careful to hold on to me because I was weak. He removed the plug and sat down on a chair. "I want you to kneel before me with your ass in the air and let me fuck your throat with my cock while I give you the last 5 strikes.
Master knew that his slave loved to suck his cock because this pleased him most of all!
While Masters cock was deep in my throat he whipped my bottom,  each time the strap would hit my skin I would push my head down further coming up long enough for a quick breathe then down again with the next strike. On number 5 with Masters cock deep in my throat he came holding my head down so I could swallow his cum!

Master gathered me in his arms and as we sat enjoying the after glow I whispered in his ear, "Thank you Master, I love you!" Master said, "I love when you please me little one!"

Are you drowning in the noices that surround you everday? Do you struggle to keep them at bay and at times does it feel like you're loosing the way? Are you tempted by the voices trying to lead us all astray? Do I always believe what they say? Come along peace and quiet are not so far away. 

In the last forty five years there are many stories of my jouney with my Master in the BDSM lifestyle.
This story was in 1997 and we lived in South Florida.  You have to remember this was in the late 90's in Ft. Lauderdale,  the party capital of the south.
Master and I were exploring swing clubs which held weekly BDSM nights and one night Master watched as a slave was made to have sex with random men in the club and Master got an idea.
The next day Master said he wanted to order pizza and I thought great I dont have to cook! Soon I heard a very loud truck pull into the driveway. It was an old beat up truck that had "Rampage" painted on the side. The door opened and out jumped a 20 something hunk. He had long blonde surfer hair, tattoos all over his arms, tan and chiseled. I just about melted.
About that time my Master told me to go to the bedroom, shut the door, strip naked, kneel and wait for him. I was very confussed and thought that for some reason I was being punished by being  denied dinner!
But I always obeyed Master and did as I was told and waited.  I heard talking and laughing coming from the kitchen, that went on for a very long time and I stained to listen to the conversation. Then the door opened and Master came in with the pizza man close behind him. I was still confused and had not ever been naked in front of another man since I was a slutty teenager. I began to quiver with excitement, Master saw this and smiled, I was pleasing him, my excitement increased and I began to wiggle.
"Little one, this young man thinks you are beautiful and wants to fuck you. You know how I enjoyed watching the slut at the club get used by other men and I decided that I would like for you to be used in the same way while I watch.  Then you will service me with your mouth when he has finished with you. Will you do this for your Master?"he said. "I will do anything to please you Sir!" I said.
The young man stripped and my eyes went wide. Before me sprang the biggest cock I had ever seen for real, it terrified me.  My Master was well endowed but this thing reminded me of the horses I had seen in the fields out in the country where I was raised. What had I agreed to! I waited obediently as the young man walk around and around looking at my naked body, it made me tingle with excitement to see the desire in his eyes, then I looked at Master and he was watching me with great intensity. I wondered what Master expected of his slut.
Then the young man said to me "I will not hurt you, I am not into inflicting pain for my pleasure. I am going to take you gently because I know the size if my cock may scare you but you have nothing to fear and I want you to trust me " With that he offered his hand and helped me raise leading me to the bed where he laid me down.
Master still watched but had a blank expression and he said "Little one you must make me proud, dont watch me. Concentrate on being used for my pleasure." "Yes Master, I wish only to please you Sir."
The young man took me in everyway way you can imagine, using my body for his pleasure and bring me one orgasm after another until I was sweaty and spent.
The young man had me bent over taking me from behind when Master stood before me and said "Little one your Master has enjoyed watching his slut be used by this young man but now I want you to satisfy my need for you." My Master fucked my mouth while I was being taken from behind which bought each of us to a mutual climax!

As we all lay basking in the after glow my Master said, "Who wants some pizza!"

While sitting in the car wash today I had a wonderful fantasy!

Master and I pulled into the automatic car wash that only lasts for 8 minutes. He turns to me and says "You were denied an orgasm last night as punishment for your rude behavior but have been extremely well behaved today so I am going to allow you to have an orgasm  but you only have these 8 minutes and you may not use your hands!"
My imagination went wild trying to think of how I was going to be able to achive this task and also how best to please my Master!
"Master may I use your cock to help me achieve?" I asked. He said, "Of course you may little one, but you only have 8 minutes and if you use my cock then I must also have an orgasm. If you dont achieve this for us both then I will have to punish you! If you are worried that you cant make this happen then you should not even try." "Master will you tell me what my punishment will be?" I asked. "Yes little one, I will bind you so you can not move, then I will strap on a clitoral vibrator to your clit and refuse to allow you to cum. You will stay that way until I am satisfied that you have learned control." he said.
I thought for a minute and then I decided I  could make this happen!
So we proceeded into the car wash and I wasted no time stripping off my pants and underware. Then like a she wolf I tore open Masters pants. Thank goodness Masters cock sprang out of his pants hard and ready.  I turned facing the windshield and quickly straddled Master hard erection. Wait!  I can not use my hands to guide his cock into my pussy! 2 minutes have already passed, just 6 more minutes to go.  I thought, I can do this! So I wiggled and squirmed on Masters cock finally getting into just the right position and his full lenght entered my very wet pussy. 4 minutes left, I began to bounce up and down, thats all it took! I exploded with a massive orgasm, squeezing my pussy tight around Masters cock, this brought on the chain reaction and Master filled me with his cum. Yes, sweet success and with 1 minute to spare.
"Master have I pleased you?" I asked. "Yes little one, you have pleased me. But now you need to clean up this mess and you only have 1 minute!" Hot damn the rewards of success.

We all know that in this lifestyle there are many different types of relationships.  

In these relationships there are many emotions that exist. Does love exsits?
Love is felt and expressed in many different ways. As in the love of a child, the love of a pet or the love of an obsession.
They are all love.
(Noun) An intense feeling of deep affection.
(Verb) Feel a deep romantic or sexual attachment to.
As a slave it is not for me to expect the love of my Master but He shows me love.

As a slave it is not for me to expect kindness but He shows me kindness.

As a slave its not for me to expect mercy but He shows me mercy.

I am a truly Loved slave! I am his prize possession and because of that love my desire to serve him is never wavering and a total life commitment.

This slave gives her Master total submission in all aspects of her life because of the love her Master shows her.

Showing love does not make my Master less dominate, it makes him wise.

One day Mom was cleaning junior's room and in the closet she found a bondage S+M magazine. This was highly upsetting for her.
She hid the magazine until his father got home and showed it to him.
He looked at it and handed it back to her without a word.
She finally asked him, " Well what should we do about this?"
Dad looked at her and said, "Well I don't think you should spank him."

One little word that means everything!