Kindness

SchrodingersDinosaur​(switch female){N/a} - Not being disrespectful T, everyone is certainly entitled to their own opinion but there is no reason to read a post about someone's personal problems if you don't wish to. As someone who uses this forum to help me deal with my personal problems to find the resolution I need I'm afraid I disagree with the perspective of the above meme pretty strongly. I don't foresee letting myself ever be silenced again and I hope your opinion doesn't discourage others who might feel as though they don't have a place where it's safe for them to unload some of their baggage. I don't know you personally and therefore can't make a judgement on that which you've experienced in life but based on the beautiful things you've shared about your Master and the dynamic you have, I'm inclined to say you are a very lucky lady. Many of us haven't been so fortunate. This Lifestyle can leave scars, deeper emotionally than physically sometimes. Who else better to help you process through that pain and confusion than others who understand the different mores that drive us kinky folk?

T slave​(sub female){Owned} - Henna, thank you for your response and I by no means meant for others to surpress the need to share their pain and strife, especially if it is cathartic to do so.

i have been blessed to have enjoyed a supportive relationship with my Sir who thankfully has always been there as i have been for Him even through unhappy times. No one escapes trying times in life.

i believe that my point was more that in life i have found that over sharing can bring judgement that then can cause more hurt than healing.

As a community we are here to make friends and support one another which can be the defining moment in a persons life, i certainly dont want to discourage that. However i fear that those that are in a fragile state will be easily taken advange of.

SchrodingersDinosaur​(switch female){N/a} - I understand that T. I'm afraid there are predators everywhere and I can see the possibility of them trying to take advantage of someone who is pouring out their pain but hopefully those of us that care can counteract some of that ill-intentioned attention. I also considered that maybe your post might have been in reference to someone who might need professional assistance versus just needing to unload a bit. I definitely wouldn't want someone who needed legitimate help to only write about their pain and not get the care they need.