Kindness

Silver​(sub female){not intere} - great job on this! many people dont truly understand what it means to be a slave.

Joker519​(dom male){No} - Excellently expressed I believe I will have the next sub I am involved with read this before I mention the possibility of her earning a collar

Silver​(sub female){not intere} - joker i know every D's dream is to have a slave. and i wish i had money for everytime a D tried to convince me that i needed to be a slave to Him and totally bypass being a submission. what i have learned is that becoming a slave is a goal to aim for.
There is a huge difference between being a submissive and a slave. When a sub is living on their own seperately from the D it makes no sense to be a slave especially in long distance relationships.
Sure in cyber i guess anything works but in real life being a slave works better in a 24/7 situation.
And basically submissives have rights and limits and they can say NO that they wont do something. But a slave does not have any of those rights. And realistically some people just cant be a slave.
So instead of putting the cart before the horse and taking a chance that any new prospective sub will bail on you due to the difference between being a submissive or slave; dont You think You would rather cultivate a relationship and see if there is any chemistry between You and a new prospective submissive.
Then down the road if Y/you have chemistry together and Y/you both decide together to take the step for her to become a slave then Y/you have something for the relationship to stand on.
Honestly from listening to many submissives who have been pressured to become slaves right away, prospective new D's end up scaring them away or the relationship fails.
So You choose either a viable relationship or another failed attempt. and of course ...if you have the time.....respond with a list of ....why You would like a slave...and a second list of why You would or would not like a submissive and ill compare them with You and discuss the whole subject.