Hey everyone
I was talking to my wonderful partner today. Reminicing about some past experiences, some good some not so great. You'll remember one of my earlier posts about the not so good. I remember when I first connected with her. She was fragile and felt worthless. I tend to frown upon people who feel that way about themselves. For me I find the good in everyone. I'm happy to say shes gaining confidence daily. I reinforce how wonderful she is in her everyday life. How great of a partner she is to me. Really teaching me about not only the lifestyle but everyday life. Shes wonderful in every sense of the word. I am truly blessed.
This leads me to my pet peeve ...
I tend to feel upset and frustrated when she said she felt powerless and worthless. Honestly I felt sad. She had been in a toxic relationship prior to this. In my opinion not very healthy. Made to feel like she was ALWAYS in the wrong. This simply isnt true. After months of getting to know each other. Talking about everything. COMMINICATING. I see the pure intelligence that she is now starting to see in herself. Shes rebuilding herself. A strong woman. Trusting in herself again. I've never fancied a weak submissive partner. I fancy one that knows what she wants.
She is.....
Gorgeous..Graceful..intelligent..wonderful..uplifting..caring..perfect..honest
She may not have seen herself as any of those things in the past. But I sure am trying to get her to see what I see now.
She is strong!.....she is my girl!
