Well its official... I've found my voice. Not metaphorically but physically . Today I snapped my princess into instant sub space. Who knew it would be as simple as changing the speed and slightly altering my tone a bit?
I'm still struggling on bedtime. But we are working together to figure it all out.
Weekends seem to be the toughest time of the week for us. With other things going on we have little contact. I'm trying to come up with fun ways to pass the time for us both. Anyone having a suggestion or 2 would be great.
Im missing my princess...😞
But I'm patient and staying posative...😊
Weekends seem to be the toughest time of the week for us. With other things going on we have little contact. I'm trying to come up with fun ways to pass the time for us both. Anyone having a suggestion or 2 would be great.
Im missing my princess...😞
But I'm patient and staying posative...😊
Hey guys
Just an update...
Things are going extremely well between my partner and I. It takes time and I know that. We are very good together. Knowing what each other is all about is key. Patience and understanding of what the other has going on helps us communicate better. We've hot some milestones this last week which is so amazing.
Princess.....you're MINE!
Things couldnt be better atm.
All is right in the world...
Nassau
Hey yall...
Been a little bit....
As a new dom I sometimes hold back. Letting my vaillia side take over and fear that maybe I've upset my partner. Over the holidays we had a breakthrough. I didnt let the fear stop me from taking control. I wasnt worried about things like..."I hope I havent upset her". I put my foot down and took control. I was so nervous at first....let me tell you...she loved it...I loved it too. I wasnt holding back. We know each other very well I shouldn't have to be afraid to take control ....truth is I was to a point where it was "do or die time"
Happy to say I did it. Funny thing was...I was not the least bit uncomfortable. Very natural especially with my baby girl. She asked me afterward..."was that too far outside your comfort zone" I answered honestly. "Not at all". Took a tiny mindset shift and it feels natural.
Very positive outcome overall...and it brought us closer together.
Hello all
Happy new year!
Just wanted to update you all on a few things I've blogged about thus far.
Bedtimes seem to be going very well. My princess is getting better sleep now.
I've learned a ton about little space. (Thank you all for sharing)
My partner and I are really going well. I couldnt be happier.
Baby girl - you are amazing! Giving and caring....dont ever lose sight of that.
And to quite a movie line....you complete me!
So happy to share today. When talking to my partner this morning. I almost did something that I hadn't done before. It's a big word. Never have I ever.....but thenconversatuon flowed. And she was in little space. So the almost turned into I did it....
I told her daddy loved her very much. It just rolled off my tongue with ease. She responded more then positive. Shes almost called me daddy a few times but caught herself.
It's a word kinda like saying "I love you" for the first time.
Both of us are very happy the topic was broached. I always say communication is key. Today is a great day.
Princess.....daddys here.
Hello everyone
I'm looking for some help. My partner is struggling to sleep at night. I know she likes a bedtime routine. I'm trying to come up with something that works for her. Any suggestions would be great.
I want to make it simple and straight forward. Something that she would love. Something that shows her every night that I'm here. I'm thinking about her. And how much she means to me.
Couple things come to mind. As we sometimes go to bed at different times.
Im thinking a prerecorded video message I send to her for bedtime. Something I record through the day. Not sure yet.
What are some of you're favorite bedtime routines? Anything you can share would be nice.
Hey yall
I have learned a hard lesson about routine. Certian interactions between partners are crutial. Every morning and every night I make sure there is at least a dialogue between us. Life sometimes gets in the way. I missed my good morning message today. 😞 I just did not have the ability to get there to greet my princess. It's been an up and down day for me. She says shes fine but I know better. Routine helps motivate and comfort everyone. I cant do this again. Never again.
For those of you who can relate. Make that extra effort to do what you do as part of a routine. It means the world to both sides.
Hey yall
I have learned a hard lesson about routine. Certian interactions between partners are crutial. Every morning and every night I make sure there is at least a dialogue between us. Life sometimes gets in the way. I missed my good morning message today. 😞 I just did not have the ability to get there to greet my princess. It's been an up and down day for me. She says shes fine but I know better. Routine helps motivate and comfort everyone. I cant do this again. Never again.
For those of you who can relate. Make that extra effort to do what you do as part of a routine. It means the world to both sides.