Finding me, with Him.

SubmissiveDame - Yes and no... I've only recently started looking for a dominant. For so many years I kept the feeling to submit suppressed. I think its more of a societal thing. Like, "How dare you seek something different." I was unhappy, unsatisfied for the longest time. Simply because I was trying to "fit" in. However, I've found that there are so many others who want to be dominated; and honestly its not hurting anyone else. It makes me happy and I'm finding satisfaction for once!

LaVieEnRose​(sub female){Kintsugi} - Part of me wondered early on if I was truly a sub or if I just liked the idea of it, but then every time I thought about vanilla guys or someone who was just a top I’d roll my eyes and get irritated with the fact that I could walk over most of them. Every blog/forum post, whatever I read just made me yearn for that connection.

The right Dom will light something in you on fire and make you realise that despite it all that inner sub HAS to come out and she needs to be nurtured and cared for.

LitAngel​(sub female) - I think at the beginning i questioned my self a lot, it can be hard to accept your self but i think it has more to do with the fact that we ask ourself what others would think about the lifestyle we have chosen. I almost gave up on my second day of being here, but every time i looked back at my vanilla world and how unsatisfied i was, i just knew. I taken my time to learn what exactly is what i wanted and let me tell me since that day that i started to be part of this community i been the happiest. Now even if it takes years to find my perfect Dom/Daddy im never ever going back to vanilla.